Please Help me?

Question

I love this girl and i think its time to move on. Its not because i dont like her looks or anything but i dnt think shes really interested in me and im so in love that i cant even do anything. I've had no sleep at all becasue im literly thinking about her every minute of my life. I've been sick for the last month, and ive been failing most of my grades dramaticly.
But i think i cant live life without her, She makes my heart leap out and ..................
I really love her AND FOR UR ANSWERS PLEASE DNT WRITE JUST GO UP TO HER AND TALK TO HER MORE OFTEN AND ...............JUST PLEASE TELL ME HOW I CAN GET OVER HER

Answer 1

Honestly, I wish I could say more than what I'm about to tell you, after all, I know how it feels to be madly in love, and yet unnoticed.

First of all, be very careful about what you are deeming love... this probably isn't love, it's most likely infatuation (in other words, a crush, and soon to be short lived). You must think about what is happening, and what could happen.
I know this will sound exactly like what you don't want to hear, via your question's explanation, but the fastest way to get over someone is to ask them out and get rejected.

You should ask her out on a date. If she agrees to go out with you, then it was a benificial thing to ask her out, right?
If you ask her out and she says she would rather jump off the top of the empire state building... (in other words, rejection) you can then start getting over her.

If you don't feel like asking her out and getting rejected, I understand, but you must remember that living in a fantasy world where she could possibly someday be with you (but in actuality there is not a chance unless she asked you out) is not healthy, because it will hold you back in life and you might miss opportunities to meet even better, nicer, and possibly even cuter girls simply because you had a crush you couldn't (or wouldn't) get over.

You could try getting over her the other way... that would be by ignoring her, and avoiding contact with her, forcing her from your thoughts, occupying your time with activities so much that you don't have time for anything but what you are doing at that exact moment... but I honestly don't recommend it, because you'll get even more tired than you are now.

I'm sorry to hear you're having this difficulty, but most of us go through this at one time or another, and I want you to know that you CAN get past this, one way or another. Just be diligent, ok?

I hope my answer was able to help somewhat.

Aloha,
David

Answer 2

How can you love somebody that much, and have all of these symptoms and get nothing in return that you have to move on? I think either you are so "in love" that you aren't seeing, nor thinking right. I think that if you just sit back and say, "Why do I want to be with somebody who doesn't want to be with me?" Or why am I letting her get to me like this?Then maybe you can begin to see there is a problem with how you are thinking and change it. It isn't going to be easy but it can be done. You need to focus on not only your schoolwork, but what other hobbies, friends, things to do in your life. When you put your whole mind, heart and soul into one person, one situation, that is very unhealthy. You need to broaden your horizons here and that means, go and learn about other things, go places, and meet new people. There are lots of great people in this world and once you can think that, you will see them and they'll get to know you!!! Good luck!

Answer 3

If you really like this girl then do what it takes to get to know her and impress her. If you do some of these things and she act interested then do what you can to keep her. Also, If you try these things and she still acts like she is not interested then try to focus on things you love to do to get over her. Things like hanging out with your friends you probably have not hang out with in a while or act busy in doing other things. Focus back on what is important like your grades.It might not be easy to get over her but in the end your true love will come, if you just wait and keep praying, God will answer your prayers.

Answer 4

It's not like you can just take a magic pill and be over her. You actually have to make an effort.

You say your grades are failing ... why? Because you are allowing them to. Start focusing!

She is 1 girl ....1!!! There are millions of other people out there.

Answer 5

look, there's a whole world out there and even more girls to meet. you wanna know how you can get over her? hang out with your friends, have fun, don't be dumb enough to be thinking about someone who's not even thinking about you, don't waste your thoughts on her. in your mind, try to make yourself strong. just say to yourself, that she's not worth what you feel for her. i mean for you to be failing your classes and not sleep at all that's already to the extremes. keep focusing on your school work, who knows maybe there's someone out there that feels the exact same way for you, but you wouldn't know that since you're stuck on one girl. be stuck on one girl when she's your wife or your girlfriend, but for someone you've never been with...come on stop thinking like a little kid and just start thinking about me, just kidding but seriously. honestly, you're gonna flunk for a girl? come on, this is another girl telling you this so take it into consideration. have a good one and get over it!

Answer 6

If you try to divert your attention elsewhere, and not dwell so much on her....im pretty sure you'll find a closure eventually....it's true what they say that only time can heal, some things cannot be forced to be forgotten overnight.....but you can help yourself by getting involved in other things

Answer 7

It sucks when a relationship doesn't work. It takes time to start feeling "normal" again. Find things to occupy your time. Start with your school work. That's very important. Hang out with your friends and slowly you'll find yourself thinking less and less about her.

Answer 8

you are co-dependant and need counceling hun