well when I was younger maybe 5 or six. a friend of the family son who was maybe 14 or 15 at the time used to feel me up and hunch on me. I didn't understand that is was maybe wrong at the time but since I didn't know that it was wrong I didn't tell and I kind of liked it.
2006-06-05 17:17:31 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
Absolutely it was molestation. That shouldn't have ever happened. You were too young to know that it was wrong and please don't ever feel guilty for something that you had no control over. The best thing you can do for yourself is to talk to someone about it. A lot of communities have free counseling for people who have been sexually abused.
2006-06-05 17:27:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 18⤊ 4⤋
kids molesting kids--not possible--we expect 13 and 14 yr olds to know better--but yet they are too young to do other things like drink and drive and other stuff like that-- sure the 14 yr old may have did something wrong--but how do we know that it really happened or it is just something you thought happened--
if he isnt doing anything now--live on with your life and let him live his---
causing a problem you may or may not know happened for sure will oonly cause problems--if he isnt doing anything to you now--then its more than likely a false memory--i had some of those myself--thought my dad raped me when i was young--turned out it never happened---
and to say that --oh my tell someone that he may be out there doing it to other little girls --is just pure bullshit----i am a gay male--if i had sex with a female right now wouldnt make me str8---
if nothing has happened other than this one incident--if it happened that is--there is no proof--and just because a kid yells that it happend--without actual penetration there is no proof---how old are you now?surely if he only did this once-- that he would have done it again and again..
again no proof no chance anything will come of this--except maybe cause alot of trouble--
i guess i can go to the guy that raped me when i was 10--i kept it hidden for years--but i have no proof he did this--so i live my life everyday and it has made me a better man for what he did--as i know rape is wrong at any age
2006-06-05 17:31:03 · answer #2 · answered by lhardwick69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The inappropriate touching and the age difference as well as the overall comfort level indicates that yes it was molestation, but you should know that repressed memeories are often fuzzy and only will become clear once you trust yourself enough to face the truth.
2006-06-06 07:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by psychologist is in 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was for sure, but don't ever feel bad about kind of liking it. Humans are sexual in some way, from birth or sooner, but need older people to keep us safe till we mature. Unfortunately it doesn't always work that way, but is never the childs fault !!! Also, from a kids point of view, most attention from someone older is enjoyable.
2006-06-05 17:27:17 · answer #4 · answered by Myr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is always a gray area. He may be a good person now. not the molesting type. Maybe he was just an overly horny boy who really should have known better. But you were definately violated! he should have gotten punished.
2006-06-05 17:22:43 · answer #5 · answered by violet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i would consider it a form of molestation and definitely abuse.i had the same thing happen to me when i was around 4 or 5.i felt the same way.i think it was the attention for me.but everyone feels different for different reasons.talk to a therapist so you can come to terms with this.
2006-06-05 17:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by jacqui 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 15 he knew completely what he was doing, you on the other hand, were too young to know what was going on. I would say it is absolutely molestation. I would let someone know... he may be doing it still to other children.
2006-06-06 06:22:55 · answer #7 · answered by britt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it is wrong. but if you decide to tell somebody, don't tell them you liked it. and it was so far in the past that the guy would totally deny it, and nothing can be done. you probably just loved the attention that he was giving you. maybe that is why you remember it so well.
2006-06-05 17:21:00 · answer #8 · answered by Pearlz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your elders now (by saying elders , I mean parents, teachers etc). Its not to late even now. God knows how many lifes he has ruined up to now. Even if he hasnt dont it again he needs to be help reesponsiable for what he did. It never was and it never will be your fault so please dont blame your self in anyway. You were to young to know and even if you thought you liked it, it still was and still is wrong. talk to your parents first and go from there. Please talk to your parents and I mean not tomorrow or next week, next month or next year, ASAP please, if you dont it will affect you later in life and that will not be good for you, your family, kids etc. Solve the issue now and have a good life in the years ahead. God bless and good luck............
2006-06-05 17:37:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it was,he was old enough to know,if this still bothers you talk to a friend or counsellor about it,if you think you should tell the police go ahead,hes was wrong to do it,you are the victim don't let anyone tell you other wise
2006-06-05 17:23:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he shouldnt have done that to you, you were just a little girl and he was old enough to know better. I've had a personal expercience like that too.
2006-06-05 17:21:24 · answer #11 · answered by Brandi E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋