My x and i broke up for good now and ended up not talking for 2 weeks..to my suprise he called me and told me he still wants to be friends..which is fine with me i guess...i just want to know can someone fall out of love with someone in a month? and i also heard hes seeing someone else and wondering how that would make him look at me now? our relationship didnt work out and im fine with that...but idk if hes trying to play mind games with me or what the hell is the deal?
2006-06-05 17:02:51 · 4 answers · asked by laughalot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are still sensitive to what your ex is doing and what his intentions are, you need to explain to him that you are not comfortable with him at this time. Whether he is genuinely trying to be cordial and remain friends or he actually has ill intentions, this course of action should keep the two of you civil.
If he is trying to be friends, you explain to him your position, with severe honesty, that you arent comfortable. As a friend, he should grant you your distance until you are ready to begin a friendship type relationship. If he has ill intentions, he will feel 'spotted' when you ask for time and should lay off.
2006-06-05 17:13:34 · answer #1 · answered by JustJake 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you borke up and he's cool about it it's one of 2 things
either he's a cool customer and very pragmatic about dating, as crying ovewr a break up for a guy is time wasted, there are so many women he can date
or
he was seeing ( more likely ) the girl while he was seing you and it was a matter of convienant timing for the break up so he could see the new GF without sneaking around
as for remaining freinds
that's an excuse to leave his option open fopr more sex should he need a fallback postion and you are gullable and naive enough he could be a good ex.
2006-06-05 17:11:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to your first question...''how can someone fall out of love with u in a month''unfortunately they probably werent in love or had fallen out of love long b4,,,and about u askin,u were wondering how he looks at u now...well if he is seeing someone else ''already'' then he has probably moved on...but u shouldnt put soo much mental effort into him right now and worrying and wondering what he's thinkin...he doesnt seem to be worth the while...give yourself some ''u'' time and learn from mistakes, sometimes experiencing these difficult times is necessary in our lives to make us wiser and more aware...good luck
2006-06-05 17:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if hes seeing someone else, he has obviously moved on. Just be friends with him..
2006-06-05 17:10:01 · answer #4 · answered by Cheeseburger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋