I hope this is allowed & if not, oops. PLZ read! Thx!?

Question

I need more responses so I can pick a best answer & show my sons girlfriends mom the responses I got. PLEASE, read this carefully and do understand I am NOT the one keeping the kids apart. I need honest responses from parents of teen daughters and sons. Thanks!!

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Av3QQpzHoiNXoOj7CcNA2v3sy6IX?qid=1006060125760

YAHOO, if this is not allowed, I am sorry, I did not know. PLEASE, consider keeping this question up.

Thanks people for the responses already but would everyone please respond where the link takes you to & not here? I am trying to keep it all together so when I show my sons girlfriends mom. Thanks!!

mary

Answer 1

I think they are old enough to make those type of decisions on their own. The will anyways, whether it's with each other or not.
All you, as a parent, can do is provide them with the necessary information and tools to make their decision. It's not necessarily their obligation to tell you what they've decided, either. (they could lie to you anyways)
The person you can focus on, is your own son. Be there for him, talk to him openly and honestly, and tell him you trust him to make whatever the right decision is for HIM.

Answer 2

let them know responsibilities... all of them.. try to break them up.. regret it your whole life..