I e-mailed my crush my phone number but he hasn't called. I don't want to appear needy, I just like him a lot. I am very busy and not desperate, but I can't stop thinking about him. Is is wrong to pursue him? I have known him 3 months.
2006-06-05 16:44:28 · 10 answers · asked by neener68 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You'll only appear needy if you keep emailing or calling him from here on out. You emailed your phone number, leaving no doubt you are interested in him. Leave it up to him now and resist the urge to contact him again until he chooses to contact you! Men like a little bit of a challenge.
2006-06-05 16:49:31 · answer #1 · answered by WiserAngel 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What you did wasn't right or wrong, it's a personal choice. However, if it were me, I wouldn't make any more moves. If he doesn't call, let it go & move on. You didn't say how long it's been since you gave him your number, but I'd say if a week or two goes by with no response, he won't be calling. He might be a busy person too.
2006-06-05 23:52:19 · answer #2 · answered by Frankie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im with wiserangel..
With the exception of the last part.
Men dont want a "challenge" when it comes to just hooking up for the first date.
He may not have gotten the number or he may not have been interested in the first place.
You never said he had a crush on you.
2006-06-05 23:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to step out of the game and let HIM do a little gameplay. if he's into you, then chances are eventually he will call--don't rush him! in fact, boys are just as shy and confused as we girls are, so it's normal if it takes him a while to call (he's probably thinking up ways to sound cool while saying "hey"..hehe). don't worry, if the chemistry is there, he'll come around. but if he doesnt, then relax and find someone else...i know that sounds hard to do now, but you'll get over it. Good Luck!
2006-06-05 23:52:33 · answer #4 · answered by xeternal_heavnx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the book "He's Just Not that Into You" It's very helpful and puts this whole subject into perspective!
2006-06-05 23:48:03 · answer #5 · answered by Missy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? just relax, maybe he feels a little overwhelmed that you are pursuing him......maybe he'd rather do the chasing...or he just hasn't had a chance to call you......or maybe your email got stuck in his junk mail....you should find out.....
2006-06-05 23:51:23 · answer #6 · answered by Iowa_Bound 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remind him again. He might not get your number the first time around. after that.stop. if he did not call he is not interested.
2006-06-05 23:50:49 · answer #7 · answered by TIKBOY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax. You'll appear needy and clingy if you bother him. Let him do a little chasing.......
2006-06-05 23:47:02 · answer #8 · answered by Aimee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down. Just be patient. He'll call soon. And don't be easy-to-get, ok?
2006-06-05 23:50:03 · answer #9 · answered by miyachan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL IT ALL DEPENDS ON HOW YOU GO ABOUT IT. YOU CAN WRITE HIM BACK AND ASK HIM FOR HIS NUMBER.
2006-06-05 23:50:29 · answer #10 · answered by sexy girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋