Boyfriend help??

Question

hello people. i have a long distance relationship. i met him with yahoo answers. we have so much in common and he's so cool and funny. but it's so hard being away from him. he lives in Chicago and i live aobut 30 minutes away. i haven't told my parents about him. i know him so well, and i'm thinking of meting up with him. i trust him. i just don't know wat to do. should i meet up with him at my party? plz and thank you.

oh yea, and i have talked to him on the phone.

the pary is at a resturaunt

Answer 1

please please tell your parents. if you think he's a great guy then you should have nothing to fear. if you're going to meet him, I would ask you parents to go with you. i know it sounds cheesy, but there are so many people out there who devote their whole lives to deceiving people (especially young girls). I'm not saying your boyfriend is one of them, but you have to, HAVE TO, play it safe. if he's so awesome then why not have your parents meet him??
if not your parents... someone older, wiser, and stronger to look out for you in case something goes wrong. be super careful and best of luck.

Answer 2

You cannot know someone so well simply by talking to them over the internet. I once met a girl online and then I met her and she was completely different in person. People can be whoever they want when they are sitting in front of their computer. Be very careful. As a man, I can tell you that you should not trust a man that you meet online. You should definitely tell your parents about him. If you are going to meet him, you should meet at a neutral place like a restaurant so that he doesn't know where you live, just in case he is a freak. You should take some friends along or even your parents. Any guy that is worth being with should respect you enough to agree to being catious and should want to make sure you are protected. I would wait and not invite him to your party. If he is a dud, you don't want to have to entertain him all night and then have him trying to contact you later. I just really want to encourage you to be careful, and don't trust guys until they prove themselves. I would not be alone with him until you get to that point. God bless.

Answer 3

30 minutes away is long distance to you?

Why haven't u told your parents? is it because u know they would flip if they knew u were

a. chatting online with guys

b. planning to meet a guy u met online

c. Your too young to be doing this & he's older

U don't know anything about this guy, u met him online and u say u know him, yet ur not gonna tell ur parents about him

So what if u think u and he have so much in common

Anybody can tell u what u want to hear online. Have u seen a picture of him?he seen 1 of u and do he know ur parents would not allow u to meet with him.

Who's idea was it to meet?

And the reason u don't know what to do and is asking what to do, is because u know it's not a good idea to meet a stranger behind ur parents back. And u want someone to say it's ok and meet him which is why u through in meet him at a party.

Well Im not ur parents but I feel safe in saying it's not a good idea to meet this guy, because u just never know.

U could very well be one of tose poor girls or child who's picture we see on the news asking " Have you see this person"

So NO DON'T DO IT

Answer 4

whatever you do meet him at a public place, not a party, like a restaurant. You never know what kind of weirdos are lurking when you're expecting otherwise. How old are you? How do you even know that this guy is who he says he is? I wouldn't meet anyone online now that I'm a little older, but that's me. I have met people on the internet who were not at all what they've said to me online.

Answer 5

I had a friend who met a guy on myspace. It was a stupid thing to do but she met him at a really popular hang out where i live,

She said she knew all about him and that they were chatting for almost 2 months. So he gets there and hes the guy that was in his picture. He wasnt a fat guy or anything. So they hooked up and they were all busy making out and what not.

Then they went to a little secluded area by the hang out and she got raped

so dont trust anyone. you dont know who they really are if you only know them through the net.

Answer 6

Well, if you do meet him, tell him to meet you somewhere that you don't go often, and take your parents. They will need to know anyway. Unfortunatly, there is no trust on the internet. My sister had a long distance relationship in the past. It can't work long distance, so meet him if you will, but be safe!! We can't stress that enough!

Answer 7

trust is such a frail word for someone you've met online. First how many consecutive pictures of him have you seen?

two, don't meet him at your party if it is A. at your house B. at a place you frequent or C. Far away from home (as in a hotel party, i once partied out, no shame in it at all, everyone is young at one time in their lives and has to find someplace to get smashed)

Use your brain and not your, erm heart

Answer 8

30 min. is not far at all. If he is a predator he could have been watching you lots of time and you not know it. Have you given him any information that could help him find you? Bits and pieces here and there add up to a lot. Be very careful. Please let your parents or grandparents know what is going on. It would be a good idea to let them read his conversations with you, they have more experience and they care about you. Be Wise.

Answer 9

At a party seems like a great idea.Itz alwayz better to meet him in a place with people so that he doesn't try anything funny with you.Party seems like a great idea!

Answer 10

I never really trust someone I met on yahoo messenger or any other chat plases. He could be something you arent hopeing he'll be.

Answer 11

meet him but only with others around,be care full and don't be alone with him until you get to know him a little