2006-06-05 16:22:46 · 15 answers · asked by christy_carter05 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my ex is also like that.. at first i thought it was cute of him being jealous... but as time passes by it really suffocates me.. its like you cant do anything without asking permission from him or him allowing you. He became very possesive and it really kills me... As if i cant live my life by myself... piece of advice girl... don't let your bf becum a monster you should talk to him...and tell him that its normal to be jealous but its also not normal if he's over reacting when he is jealous...
2006-06-05 16:29:28 · answer #1 · answered by rae 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It don't sound like love to me, true love envies not. True love knows no jealousy, it is not possessive, it is not impatient toward the other, love knows no limit and bears up under limitations. We all have our faults, we can overlook those faults no matter what they are, love makes it possible. Also, complaining will never be heard in a person whose heart is filled with love for the other, because, love never complains.
If you feel resentment toward the other person, your heart is far from feeling love. True love endures. Love has hope in every situation and it sure don't carry a long face! Love, also, is never anxious or despondent when one of us is away. Love is kind. Love always looks for ways to build up the relationship, to be constructive rather than destructive! Love offers gentleness and kindness to one another and it looks for the good in the other person which in turn makes for a happy relationship. And love is not arrogant or conceited. Most definetly not selfish or inconsiderate of the other. I could go on and on, but honey, this guy is totally the opposite of all I have mentioned so far. He's clingy, and appears to redeem a very low-self-esteem which could prove to be disastrous later on in your relationship. I mean, you will eventually get tired of a guy hanging on to your skirt all the time not to mention how boring it will be. Yes, say down the road you find yourself friendless because this guy has chased all your friends away. Do the math, sweetie and figure it out for yourself! I truly hope you make the right choice. One more thing, Love does not insist on getting it's own way all the time.
2006-06-05 17:34:41 · answer #2 · answered by trieghtonhere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is either a sign of insecurity or his uneasiness may have been the result of a broken trust from the relationship's history.
If you've never cheated on him and did not violate his trust, his jealousy is exaggerated and self-manifested.
Don't be mistaken, jealousy is not a form of flattery. Often times, it creates more problems in the long run. Not doubting his love for you; however, trust is the foundation of a strong and successful relationship. Keep that in mind.
2006-06-05 16:32:49 · answer #3 · answered by Ana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely at first u would desire to define the relationship you could circulate in direction of that an then if he has thoughts in direction of you he will understand which you like him the only element is you dont choose him asserting it purely cuz its what you wanna hear you pick him asserting it cuz he potential it so purely be stable to him and be ur actual self an determine which you love him particularly liking him an loving him are huge distinction love is plenty extra painful if broken then particularly liking somebody. a precise it slow whilst ur having a exact talk or some thing ask him how he particularly feels approximately you devoid of at present hinting approximately love just to work out how he says he feels that permit you recognize what variety of %. to take interior the relationship :) i understand the place u come from in desiring them to assert it first an the terrific element to do is carry your self back an purely wait as tense because it would desire to be which you would be able to no longer say it to him ;)
2016-12-13 14:46:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's jealousy within love. Jealousy is a minor type of "craziness". But then, if you look at it rationally, so is falling in love, so, one fits in the other. It's natural. Ya just gotta keep control of each, or you really will go nuts. God Bless ya'll and good luck.
2006-06-05 16:28:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people confuse love with possessiveness. Be very careful of that. It might seem nice at first that he cares so much that he is easily jealous, but once he starts to question your every move and stalk you, it won't be so nice.
2006-06-05 16:32:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy turns into possessiveness... possessiveness turns into control freak... control freak turns into super control freak (not letting you go out with your friends or even go to the store alone)... super control freak turns into an abusive boyfriend and you turn numb. GET OUT NOW WHILE YOU CAN! TRUST ME!
2006-06-05 16:55:01 · answer #7 · answered by cwilson_192002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a control freak to me. Be careful.
2006-06-05 16:24:41 · answer #8 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That means that he is over protective, but sometimes that can be good. Sometimes jelousy can show a person how much they care for you.
2006-06-05 16:25:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a control freak be careful
2006-06-05 16:24:52 · answer #10 · answered by toosexy4thisshit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋