Theres this boy,who practically lives next door,but he's never around.What makes it worse was we dated before,but he moved to Brooklyn.It's been two or three years since we've seen each other.He's here for the summer,and I really want to go out with him while he is here after all,any suggestions or opiions please?
2006-06-05 15:41:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him. :)
Start casual, you know, like, "Hey, I'm glad to see that your back. Wanna go out for lunch or something later and fill me in on what you've been doing?"
You can even invite him to some of our old haunts to reminisce about the good old days, or to see what's changed since he's been gone.
Both of these are good for finding out what his interests are which will help you decide if he's still the right person for you. If so, you now know more about him and you can guage his reaction to your pseudo date.
Hope that this helps.
Buddhadan
2006-06-16 22:13:33 · answer #1 · answered by buddhadan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step 1: Walk up to boy.
Step 2: Open mouth.
Step 3: Insert words such as Hi "May I ask something of you......
This is not rocket science. It isn;t hard to tell someone you like them. It is the only way they will ever know. Having a freind do it is cowardly.
Just ask. Whats the worse that can happen.
2006-06-19 10:11:01 · answer #2 · answered by mikeae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion, leave it as friends. You're only going to get hurt in the long run. Find someone local to you that you can spend time with and get to know. How crazy do you think its going to make you if you do go out with him and its time for him to leave. Do the math, why would you want to put yourself through the pain.
2006-06-17 20:00:40 · answer #3 · answered by jimmyweda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if you can talk to him on a casual level, like a phone call. Tell him you want to get together to catch up, again, something casual.
You can always move on to something more substantial if you find there is still something there.
2006-06-08 19:07:32 · answer #4 · answered by thundernlightning 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you see him ,welcome him home and chat casually. He has been away over two years. His feelings might have changed or he could even have a girlfriend. He will no doubt be happy to see you again. It doesn't mean he is ready to take up where he left off. So play it by ear.
2006-06-17 11:31:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him if he wanted to go to the pizza place or something as almost a date, this way you can tell if he likes you or not- but dont ask him in such a way that he thinks you like him or something.
2006-06-17 09:51:41 · answer #6 · answered by gracefulfall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a love letter or gifts or something too let him know that u love him at least or do the direct approach first take a deep breath and let it out slowly then ask him if he wants to go out with you at his house gt it
2006-06-19 12:29:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its time to move on Girl
2006-06-18 16:15:26 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm the best answer would be for me to email him a copy of this question!
2006-06-19 15:34:43 · answer #9 · answered by ckent1984 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him come to you. Dont chase him. Believe me if he is interested he will be asking you straight away for that date!
2006-06-19 14:53:07 · answer #10 · answered by Emma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋