My boyfriend always dumps me and comes back to me, thinking that I'll always be there. Right now we're not going out, but we still talk all the time, make out, tell each other we love each other, the whole nine yards. He never goes out with anyone else but he just does it so his friends don't bug him about it. What's his problem?
2006-06-05 15:40:42 · 22 answers · asked by Peyton 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well gal it seems that ur being used... he comes to u whenever he wants to and leaves u wenever he wants to.. u need to show him that u wont always be there, the next time wen he comes back to u, u shud tell him that ur busy or something and tell him that u will call him back on it... u should go ur with ur friends and have fun and the next day tell him that u went out, that al these were looking at u, make him feel jealous, dont always be ready to go out with him whenver he wants to go out with u, tell him ur going out, even if ur not going newhere, dont always answer his calls in the first call, make him call u 2 or 3 times b4 u answer, play hard to get, show him who wears the pants in the relationship( thats U)... dont let him take u for granted, if all these fails talk to him and let know how u feel, tell him that his friends wont be there for the rest of his life but u will be...
2006-06-05 15:52:11 · answer #1 · answered by beautysexychick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you keep taking him back, you taught him that he coud use you that way, 2nd, he doesn't want you but doesn't want anyone else to have you. 3rd his problem is he wants his cake and eat it too as they say. you are just a standby. people get addicted to other people, he is addicted to you. he comes back so you can boost his ego each time. nothing like a gurl waiting in the wings to forgive you of everything. that's what love is , total forgiveness, don't blame yourself for loving freely. one day he will do something to kill that love never to gain it back. he may be killing it right now one day at a time. we never know when we start to love someone, but we truly know when we stop. it's like a release from the ties that bind us.
2006-06-05 15:50:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like most guys he's a jerk. The next time he comes back just tell him to bug off and do not take him back again. You'll be much happier
2006-06-05 15:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by Julie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy's not sure of himself...he's insecure. He probably can't have anyone else and knows that you're always going to take him back. I agree with Donutgirl, he has two heads and can't figure out which one to think with lol.
2006-06-05 15:48:57 · answer #4 · answered by cobraraider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is not easy for a guy gay or straight to take criticism for what he does. We try to be the biggest baddest thing on earth but really we're lost most of the time and have no clue what we're doing.
2006-06-05 15:48:52 · answer #5 · answered by Mark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't seem like he has a problem. You keep taking him back, you continue to make-out with him and tell him you love him when you claim you're not dating him.. hm. As long as he knows you'll take him back and you still care for him, he's going to keep coming back to you.
This is your issue, not his. I think it's time for you to move on. That means no more making out with him, no more telling him you love him, et cetera.
2006-06-05 15:46:39 · answer #6 · answered by smalltowngirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to grow up and not worry about being bugged by his friends and you should not be available when he
comes back. He knows he can treat you like that and you will be there waiting for him. You should dump him and move on.
2006-06-05 15:45:02 · answer #7 · answered by patticakes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youth
2006-06-05 15:43:29 · answer #8 · answered by rob_711 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hormones I guess. I have to think that if a man wasn't so full of themselfs and didn't alway try and try to get in my pants, I would of never gave in.
2006-06-05 15:44:29 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His problem is hes a crappy boyfriend. And he keeps doing it because you keep letting him! Find someone who is proud to have you as a girlfriend, and doesnt take you for granted!
2006-06-05 15:43:38 · answer #10 · answered by Lilia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋