why people think that im sexy beautiful attractive but myself dont think so??

Question

why people always say that im sexy beautiful attractive but myself dont think so???guys like me,but cant keep them?

Answer 1

Maybe it's because our way of thinking.
Most cases are: People think we are not attractive, but we think we are!

So if people think you are attractive, then it's ALREADY a plus value. Now, you just need to act the way they see you. If they say you are attractive, be behave like an attractive girl, even you don't believe so.

I have ever experience this in the past. Some my new friend think that I'm smart (but they don't tell me that). When I'm doing something crap, they then say in my back "I think he is smart, but too bad he is only a crap." Because of that, now I never let people think of me like that ever again. Because now I realized that at first impression, people think that I'm smart. So I act the way it is. And it worked very well! Now many people had valued me smarter than actually I am. And I'm continuing to building myself to fit the person's first impression abut me. That's how I build myself.

By thinking positive about ourselves, it can helps us to stand in our feets and step forward onto the bright future.

By thinking negative about ourselves, it actually someday WILL become truly ourselves. I ever heard some quotes from people: "You know, in the first time, I think you are sexy. But when listening to your complaint that you are not sexy, you know what: I think you're right. You're not that sexy. Thanks for telling me the truth!"

And DON'T ever let that scenario happens in our lives!

Answer 2

Hi Sweetie sometimes we are just never happy with the way we look but that usually is a result of the way we feel learn to take a compliment even if you don't agree and remember people don't say things like that if they don't mean it work on your self confidance and guy's will probably stick around a little longer good luck

Answer 3

because you may very well be gorgeouse but perhaps your personality isnt enough to keep the guys around? are you self obsessed with dieting,guys dont like that,are you obsessed with kepping clean not breaking nails having to wear the prim and proper clothes,guys dont like this either they want a girl who looks gorgeouse but is not afraid to have fun eat well,play games go motorbike riding,do funt hings without worrying about there clothes or hair or makeup and a girl who loves kfc or mac donalds and trust me if you are weight concious like we all are you wont have to worry because you will be havcing so much fun and burning all those calories off having fun,take aback seat dont be to self obsessed and have fun you will keep a guy longer than you think

Answer 4

maybe because you are not confident in yourself if you know that you are attractive and sexy deep within and people think so too you shouldn't be shy you know. I wish i could be like you for guys to like me. be strong and hold on to your thoughts.

Answer 5

You're lying! Nobody thinks you're sexy beautiful attractive. I bet you're one of those ugly jerks who never gets any attention from men!

Answer 6

becuae you know more about what your body feels like on the inside--and people on the outside dont--you should feel beautiful for who you are--not how people see you..
how can you expect someone to love you--if you dont love youself--
peace-out

Answer 7

beauty is in the eye of the beholder, however if you don'tlove yourself how do you expect others to. also, don't have sex on the first date

Answer 8

I'm the same. People say i'm pretty but i don't really know if that's true or not...........well if other people think so, you should think so...without getting self-centered

Answer 9

Give me ur picture and lemme judge!!

Answer 10

mabey you need to change your personality for you to keep guys