like he would lisen to ma calls he would beat me up in front of ma 1 year old and beat her to everytime i try to call some one he would always beat me he made me drop out of school and i was a A B student ma parents are afraid of him and now i have to live wit him im on here because hes clubbing. all ma friends are afraid of him i dont knoe how i got into this relationship but i want it to end before i get charged 4 murder or i get killed. im only 16 and he is threatin me to do all this stuff i dont want to do
2006-06-05 15:25:22 · 17 answers · asked by bretisha j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl.i am so srry to here dat even thoe we is cozins. all i have to say is dat u dont let no mad rule u tha only man that rule you is god. i dont knoe why u didnt tell me u could had stayed over here dat boy knoe better not to mess wit me cause he would knoe what comming. and i really dont knoe why he is breating on lil breyonna like dat u need to stop keeping this to your self u need to let ppl knoe dat u r going threw this kinda situation. so heres suttin if he hit u u betta run in that kitchen and get a knife and tell him straght up. because u r to bueatuful to go threw this. and when he leaves u pack u and breyonnas stuff and get the hell out ov there and u r welcome to stay wit me,ma brother,and father. plus i dont knoe why in the hell ur parents are afraid ov him. come on now ur parents arent suppose to be scared. especelly ur mom. if she can fight that big *** nicca at 6 flags she can fight him. all im saying is dont let no nicca f*ck up ur life. and stand up 4 ur self ur not suppose to b afraid ov n e one in this world.
2006-06-13 07:15:02 · answer #1 · answered by yvonne s 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to leave him, this hits really close to home not because I've been beaten up but because my mom was in many relationships like this I'm 23 and all I can remember is being beat for nothing by a man that wasn't my father he tore up my dads pictures who died when I was 1 so I'll never know how he looks. I watched my mom get beat and thrown outside naked, we couldn't see our family and I became so shy I never had the chance to make friends with anyone other than my sister and this has always embarrassed me, me I felt wierd, and it made us so nervouse and sick, once when we left we had to sleep in our car, and it hurts to know your young and he's doing this to you, there are places you can go, don't be afraid think about your child, I feel so hurt just thinking that your going through this, leave okay, but there are places, it's not the best but neither is where you are it's going to affect you and your child, leave now, email me at I can look up some shelters now, they'll pick you up and help you find a job, oh yeah what state are you in?
2006-06-05 15:36:11 · answer #2 · answered by **Keisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to move back in with your parents. Or go to a relatives house that he doesnt know about. Just pack up your stuff when he is out of the house and leave and NEVER go back and DO not call him. Do not tell any friends where you are going so he cant find out. And leave and go to a women's shelter (look in your local phone book or search local yahoo for "womens shelter" in your area. Or stay with a relative. Go to the police again and again and try to get a restraining order. Anytime he hits you call the police as soon as you can and take pictures of all your bruises. Get out of the relationship by packing up secretly and leaving without telling anyone where you are going. I hope your child is not his.
2006-06-05 15:38:41 · answer #3 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get the hell out of there.
Wait until he leaves one night (clubbing or whatever), pack a bag, grab your kid and leave. Go somewhere where he won't find you; like a shelter or a friend's place (but not one of the obvious ones, cuz he'll come looking for you).
Then you need to call the police, get a restraining order out on him.
2006-06-05 15:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by jedimastercurtis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off, if the Police have been notified, then call them and ask for help!
They can get you in touch with Social Services and other Organizations that will help "Battered Women".
They have "Safe Houses" that will put you and your children up, and help you find a place of your own, and even help you with legal matters. They will even help you get a job, and with babysitting and all that!!
If you have a Case Worker, for Welfare, then get ahold of them, as they can provide you with assistance, and get you in touch with all available help...but, the Police KNOW the numbers for help with Battered Women!!
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-06-05 15:30:40 · answer #5 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you doing living with your boyfriend at age 16... you need to run away with your baby and get out of there.... it doesn't matter what you leave behind, just leave... go to a shelter or find someone in the family services in your area... if he hits you and your child, he could kill you both... and frankly I'd rather spend the rest of my life in prison than allow someone to hurt my baby...
2006-06-05 15:30:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you can to leave. go to a shelter and if he follows you then buy a gun. If he gives you more trouble then shoot him in the knee arm or if he's attacking you right in the chest. You won't go to jail because you are defending yourself.
2006-06-05 15:37:48 · answer #7 · answered by Mark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn...well all I can say is you need to get away from him as soon as possible...like get out of state or country make sure he doesn't know where you are...bring one of your friends...stay at one of your friends house that he doesn't know. That's pretty hard cuz see..you already called the police...what did they do to him?? Well...I'll pray for you...just get away from him.
2006-06-05 15:29:53 · answer #8 · answered by Ms.Caffiene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the cops.
get another real nasty male mate to break his face.
leave. he won't follow you across the country?
kill him...say it was self defence...do it after he has hit you so there is proof of a struggle...
don't really know... maybe go to a womens shelter?
2006-06-05 15:28:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to like move away from your area like with some relatives for a while.
2006-06-05 15:28:37 · answer #10 · answered by James B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋