Ive been going out with this guy for almost 2 months and ive known him since the beginning of the school year...is it too early?
2006-06-05 15:09:08 · 34 answers · asked by duckytrucky101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES Please don't do it I'm almost 99% sure you will regret it. If you really love him then it can wait. I had sex when I was 15 and I was not ready at all and I still regret it to this day.
2006-06-05 15:14:23 · answer #1 · answered by purselover325 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok well im 14 2 so ya but the best way to go is abstinece which means no sex. first off a girls body isnt ready to have a baby at 14, because ur hips need to develop, 2nd the chance that u can get pregnate r pretty good if u do use protection and even if he use a condom its still not 100% effective theoreticly its about 95% efective actual its about 80% effective. condoms should always be use with a spermicide and kids cant buy that so. u cant by birth control eathier. if u pop ur cherry now..... well u might have to drop out of school... i did a project and i had to do a budget on how much u need for a baby and it costs alot,3rd u will show ur parents, ur bf, and u a great deal of respect by doing this. and yes i know alot about this . and yes i am 14 so :D
2006-06-05 15:19:56 · answer #2 · answered by diferdoper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know about STDs and pregnancy and the fact that you HAVE to wear a condom EVERY TIME, then you're off to a good start, but I really don't think that you would be emotionally ready to have sex at such a young age with someone who you've know for such a short amount of time. Give it a few more months and see if you feel the same way.
By the way, Zakir (a few answers below me) is incorrect. You will not lose feeling in your girly bits or injure yourself if you have sex now. Misinformation is a very dangerous thing.
2006-06-05 15:15:05 · answer #3 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls usually start to develop their special girly body in the age of 14, but it takes about 6 years to become a girl completely. That means before 19 or 20 or so a girl is not enough matured physically. And if any girl have sex before she is 19 or 20 then she will have her those places injured and when she will be 24 or so she will start to feel that she can't enjoy it anymore and lose the most senses in her those places. I just told you this to help you to take decision if you are really ready.
2006-06-05 15:15:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dont do it...wait atleast 6 months before u actually do that..2 months is way to early..try other stuff and see if u like it...there are so many other things a couple can do besides sex....u should try other sexual things but actually IT..u know what i mean
2006-06-05 15:52:41 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous312 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is too early. Wait. . . it will mean so much more to you.
Being sexually active at 14 puts you at a higher risk of teenage pregnancy, getting an std, not staying in school.
2006-06-05 15:15:38 · answer #6 · answered by doe eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, fourteen is way too young to have sex.
Just remember: if you have to ask, it's likely that you're not mentally, emotionally or physically ready to have sex.
There's no rush; wait until you're certain you're ready. If the guy you're with has a problem with that, I think it's time to shop for a new boyfriend.
2006-06-05 15:22:18 · answer #7 · answered by smalltowngirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You cant continue to exist your possess, you could not viable discover a task a lot much less one who can pay ample for hire and charges. If you've got a buddy who's inclined to take you in, then satisfactory. Just wish your mother does not name the police and make you return correct again dwelling. If you feel foster properties are greater than your possess then I fairly suppose sorry for you.
2016-09-08 21:11:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes sweetheart its to early whats the rush take the time to get to know each other better sex is a big step and it changes everything you thought you knew
2006-06-05 15:13:40 · answer #9 · answered by toosexy4thisshit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, learn to enjoy your teen years before life gets too serious and demanding. Sex involves a whole other side of life that you are not ready for.
2006-06-05 15:23:24 · answer #10 · answered by Tina C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋