I'm a young 37 year old Grandma. I am heartbroken all the time over my grandbaby. I worry, I miss her so bad. Why do I FEEL THIS WAY?
2006-06-05 14:57:59 · 14 answers · asked by Little Girl 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Because your life is not full enough on its own. Develop a full and interesting life of your own. Then when you do share time with your grandchild, you will have something of value to share, not just your own neediness.
Talk with your doctor about the possibility of depression. Sometimes these sort of obsessive and overly concerned feelings have a chemical basis in our brains. Also, the possibility that you are beginning peri-menopause can work in tandem with these things to make it all so much more troublesome.
2006-06-05 15:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a young grandma as well why are you heart broken?
I assume your grand-baby is living somewhere besides where you do. mine as well which will cause you to miss them.
Your worry: Need more information
All I can say is have unlimited long distance and keep in touch everyday it helps to ease the pain, try to visit as much as possible.
you can email me if you wish I totally understand and maybe we can come up with something that might help!
2006-06-05 15:05:57 · answer #2 · answered by mygirl971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's true, you love her and you want another baby of your own. Have you thought about one more? You think to yourself, sheesh, if Madonna can have her first at 37, why can't you have your last at 37? Have a baby, be consumed with your own child and raise this one good enough not to get pregnant so young and go get an education.
2006-06-05 15:02:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is nice to know: But the bad thing, is that you had s e x too early. I hope you meet your child and say, "no more". YOu probably feel this way because you are too young.
2006-06-05 15:00:40 · answer #4 · answered by A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a strong connection with your grand kid thats why you feel that way. Is there any way you can go see her or your child can bring the baby to see you?
2006-06-05 15:00:29 · answer #5 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not sure why u feel this way but you can help it buy asking your child if you can see her more often.
2006-06-05 15:00:28 · answer #6 · answered by crystal w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you love the baby and maybe you are a little jealous that it is not yours
2006-06-05 14:59:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hormone grandma instinct
2006-06-05 14:59:26 · answer #8 · answered by arveen paria arasuk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dayum! i'm 28 years old and still single!! :((
2006-06-05 15:02:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...considering that you were probably i dunno at least 15 when your mama became a grandma then i bet it has something to do with natural maternal instincts
either that or your insane
either one
merf
2006-06-05 15:44:17 · answer #10 · answered by Kttycatgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋