how can i liven up my 3 year relationship w/ my bf...some things are just getting a little...well....dull. But i was wondering if there was somebody out there w/ some good suggestions or ideas how to liven up this relationship.....i love him alot and i dont want us to get bored w/ each other
2006-06-05 14:36:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be spontanious. Throw together an overnight bag and head out somewhere romantic on a Friday afternoon.
You have to break away from the norm. Do something you've never done before. While he's talking, break into his sentence and say "Hey, I love you."
Weird things like that.
2006-06-05 14:40:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is my opinition. Firstly, let me say that it doesn't take a joint decision to "liven" up a relationship if two people love eachother, it just takes one person to show some initiative. Here about 2 months ago, I got home from work, and there at the door was my sgnfigant other with a beer in each hand and smile, and nothing else. I really liked that. About 3 months ago, while we were driving, my miss's just leaned over, unzipped my pants, and went to work. I really liked that too. Those were things that she took it upon herself to do for me, and for us, and I really appriciated them. I would recomend that you think about what you are comfortable with, think about different ways to show your enthusiasm for your man, and maybe come up with something original. I'm pretty damn sure it will be appriciated. Oh yea, I don't think I'll post what I do to keep her on her toes. Good luck.
2006-06-05 21:49:08 · answer #2 · answered by Oilfield 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on a trip together...even if it's just for the day. Try checking out an amusement park, the zoo, a national park, etc. Go out to a really nice restaurant and get dressed to the nines. Maybe go camping. Have a scavenger hunt for him with little gifts along the way. Get a hotel room with a jacuzzi in it. Perform a striptease for him. Go skydiving. Volunteer for a charity together. Whatever you end up doing, pick something new and exciting that you two have never experienced together. Congratulations on the 3 years and good luck in the future!
2006-06-05 21:41:57 · answer #3 · answered by jolo4ever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if that has already happened on your part. Relationships do not always sizzle. Are you trying to keep something going that was just an infactuation? If you are truly in love with this person, you will go out of your way to do something special that he likes-just because! As far as spicing things up, maybe a day trip doing something the two of you haven't done before as a couple. Change where you go on date night. Have a small dinner/game night with one or two other couples. Spend some time in each other's company with others.
2006-06-05 21:41:33 · answer #4 · answered by the Goddess Angel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's all kinds of way to experiment. How about Role Playing...seriously well, you don't actually have to act out the role, but sex lingerie, outfits such as a french maid, catholic school girl, nurse..... there's also toys if your into that. It can be fun to experiment and try. Don't have sex often either build up stamina and anticipation. Have you ever written an erotic story? Just picture yourself w/ your man and just bring it to life w/ lots, of erotic detail....act out his fantasy through the story....make sure to have a mop and ucket near by for the drool. Have you ever tired maybe having sex in different parts of the house, different places. Strawberries, whipped cream, ice (wouldn't recommend) any kind of fruits. Hope this helps...Good Luck...need any more suggestions, ideas, give a yell!
2006-06-05 21:42:35 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save up some money and go out on vacation to somewhere very exotic. Or...go to a sex store and get some sex toys to liven it up in the bedroom. Men really like it when you do unexpected stuff.
2006-06-05 21:39:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those surprise candlelight dinners do wonders, the right langerie, and a surprise or two in the shower or bathtub will spark some interest! in other words, take the things you have in common with him and build on them, if you both like baseball or some other activity, take part in it together, you'll both enjoy what your doing and may even have a laugh about it! good luck!
2006-06-05 21:44:49 · answer #7 · answered by trekkie1972566 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either take a vacation with each other (doesn't have to be expensive) just to change up the scenery and make it new for both of you. Or, I'm sure you won't like this... But take a break from one another for a few days... Sometimes that works...
2006-06-05 21:41:50 · answer #8 · answered by Trent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a road trip together. My husband and I were in a rut when we took a road trip together and bonded on the highway. We really roughed it and worked as a team travelling from Freeport, IL to Portland, OR.
2006-06-05 21:40:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends whether or not you're talking about sex...if you are just go to a XXX shop together....
If not, they find somewhere you'll both enjoy, and just go!
2006-06-05 21:40:25 · answer #10 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋