I have this date with this guy set for tommorow. And he is a really really really dull person. I met him for the first time when i went with my family to this charity ball/dinner. Then later that night he asked me out to dinner for another time, when i went i was bored out of my mind. And he asked me to go out with him tommorow too. I agreed, and now im regreting it cuz i think i'll literally die from boredom if i go again. How can i get myself out of it without being too rude?
2006-06-05 14:07:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think most people consider me "dull" aswell but I think you should go through with it and go out on the date... if you make up someting and cancel his natural response may be "then when can we go out again?" and you are back where you started.... so if you have no desire to go on a date with him you will have to rude to him.. since you already accepted his offer to go out.....and as a dull guy he will probaly ask a few question and then kindly accept your rejection... But i still think you should go.....
2006-06-05 21:25:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him and said you can't make it. then you don't have to see him. and if he call, just don't pick up the phone. after a while he would stop calling. but if continue just talk with him on the phone and said that he is not your type, and good bye. see, all this typing is less than 2 min. and reading it is less than 1 min. said it out and you don't have to sit at the dinner table for an hour.
2006-06-05 14:16:54 · answer #2 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to tell him the truth...jus tell him thankyou for being so sweet and all but u really don't feel you r intrested.....n call off the date.....sure he will b hurt a little but theres no way around that,the longer u go on this way the more attached he will get to you n u don't want that so jus tell him the truth hun.....good luck,luv ya lots
2006-06-05 14:16:31 · answer #3 · answered by Albee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say to him politely that you don't want to go with him. it'll hurt him a little but he'll just have to face the facts. you don't have to be rude. just say it in a subtle way if you're scared to tell him.
2006-06-05 14:12:11 · answer #4 · answered by anak sendu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to develop a case of stomach virus or tell him you had sushi and are not well.
2006-06-05 14:12:04 · answer #5 · answered by grisgris100 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just be straight with him...either tell him that you're not interested(nicely) or you pick a place to go, somewhere you know you'll have fun at
2006-06-05 14:13:43 · answer #6 · answered by xO KeRRii AnnE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋