i think one of my friends like me more than a friend....what should i do?

Question

i think one of my guy friends likes me more than a friend but he's got a girlfriend. i dont want to ask him but i do @ the same time. i just think i need help

i think one of my guy friends likes me more than a friend but he's got a girlfriend and i also hav a boyfriend. i dont want to ask him but i do @ the same time. i just think i need help

Answer 1

It would all depend on what you want. If you like him too then confront him. If you are not interested, ignore it and hopefully it will just go away.

Answer 2

You know I had the same problem like a year ago. A very good friend just told me he liked me more than a friend, and if I like he'd dump his girlfriend for me. Which is stupid, because I know he doesn't like me like that. It got pretty awkward after that, I couldn't even look him in the eyes. So, I tried giving each other space, so we could think, well so he could think. I think he just liked the idea of being IN LOVE with me, because we're always together, we always do most things together and stuff. But after he told me that, things just went from bad to worse. It was hard seeing him everyday, even harder to talk to him. I thought I lost a good friend because of that. So, to answer your question, don't talk to him about it. Wait 'till he talks to you about it because you're really not sure, are you? I mean, you really don't want to ruin a good friendship over it and a relationship, for that matter. But if he really likes you and you like him back, and both of you are willing to try it out, then please, go ahead. But until then, just keep things the way they are. And before you go into a relationship with him, in case he really likes you and breaks up with his girlfriend, you have to choose: you wanna stay friends or you want to be his girlfriend. Both have their advantages and disadvantages. I know you know what they are. So honey, just sleep on it. Don't worry about it too much and good luck.

Answer 3

Don't do it. Friends are so much more important, keep it at that and you will be a lot happier in the end. Heck go out and find someone else. Especially since he has a girlfriend do you want to be a homewrecker??? I think not.

Answer 4

If he keeps this up for awhile you should talk to him about it, or have someone else find out for you. Does he act different around you than he does his girlfriend? Does he talk to you more? Does he flirt with you alot? Ask yourself these questions, what kind of results do you get? Ask him if he's into anybody else besides his girlfriend.. if he likes anybody. And if he says yes find a way to find out, or if you think it feels right ask him.

Answer 5

Just ask him.
Say something like "Hey, I've been getting this wierd vibe from you lately and though I really like you as my freinds I'm not sure if maybe you want something else."
Then pause and see what he says.
If he says "Yes I wanna date you"
You say " I don't even want to talk about this because you already have a girlfreind, and I am not telling you to break-up with her to be with me, because I don't even know how I feel about it yet"- (If you're not interested)
Or make out with him like a mule eating an apple if you are interested.

Answer 6

okay, if yourr guy friend has a gf, and you think he act more than a friend, you should have talk to him about this, otherwise this will be in a huge problem. I mean later on maybe. with my own oppinon, i think you should ask him, i know you might be scare, so if you are try letter writng with hiim. That might be better than face to face talking.

Answer 7

Well do what ever u feel but when u get the answer plz email me cause I'm having the same problem.

Answer 8

Be a friend, be loyal, nice and the truth will pan out. Dont stop being yourself. Don't panic.

Answer 9

Just ask him how he looks upon the relationship between u and him

Answer 10

try to act normal. if he dumps his girlfriend, it might means that he likes you and will prabably someday want to ask you out