sum good tips i looked up fr this off of google. hope it helps! =)
Anyway, here are all of the tips from that list:
-Don't try to be all dirty to turn him on if you've just started dating or he's just over for a date. It seems easy, and you don't want to go out with those kind of guys, anyway.
-Don't spaz out and worry if you're a good kisser. If he likes you, it won't matter.
-Don't have horrendous breath. Either brush your teeth before you go out, have mints with you, or stay away from garlic, onions, etc. (unless you both eat them) Good or normal breath is okay-peanut butter breath isn't.
-Chapped lips = gross. LIP BALM, PEOPLE, LIP BALM!!
- Straddle him.
- Run your hands down his neck, or back.
- Run your hands through his hair.
- Use different types of kisses, not just tounge.
- Don't forget to breath. Haha.
- Suck/nibble on his lower lip gentley.
-Don't get pressured into doing it if you're not ready.
-Don't make out for the first time (or any time) because you're hornery. (Yes I know I spelled it weird) Make sure you want to and it's not just a fling, or you could feel pretty ****ty afterwards.
-Perfume: Wear a litte so he can only smell it when he gets really, really close.
-Lick the back of his ear after working your way up there with kissing.
-Trace random patterns all over with your fingers.
-Make sure you won't get interrupted. It's embarassing when little sibs run upstairs screaming, "Mommy! He's on top of her!!!"
-Don't just thrust your tounge in his mouth
-Keep it soft, not just all licking his face and what not
-Keep your eyes closed... please..... we don't want to be seeing this when we are making out
-Don't get all crazy like taking off your shirt and all, unless you are going to get it on lmao.
-don't attack him with your tongue. Be gentle, and if you're afraid you're doing something wrong, just follow his lead. Your hands will find a place, don't worry about it. And enjoy it, don't spend the whole time thinking "Am I doing something wrong?"
-Don't do it with someone in an effort to "win them over". It will backfire.
-If you're in your bedroom or basement or something, have something else going on, like a movie playing or music, so it doesn't look like you're in there doing God-knows-what.
-Swallow, and don't dribble on him.
-Don't think about it too much. If you aren't sure of what to do, just do what he does. Just don't forget to close your eyes, and do forget to breathe.
-gently use fingertips to caress over each others bodies, up and down his arms, and across his chest, it tingles, and feels really good.
-make some eye contact, my friend finds that hot, cause I'm shy, and he thinks I have pretty eyes.
-don't breath through your mouth at all, I got told this one. Embarrasing.
-Take it slow, let the emotion build up.
-maybe try holding his cheek where your finger tips are in his hair, and try playing with his hair.
-get into the moment and make it real special ;D
-dont bite..ow ahaha
-just enjoy it xD
-Run your hands along his side, varying pressure
-Run your hands anywhere, varying pressure
-Start off by giving him a good backrub (google on how to do this so you don't hurt him)
-Leave something to the imagination when dressing for him.
-Play with the bottom of his shirt, and slowly put your hands under it, then out again.
-Stroke his face.
-Before this all stars, stroke his face and mouth.
-Kissing games are always fun
-Don't try to impress him with all your stuff/skills/etc. No one likes a braggart. Just be yourself.
-Smile and look right into his eyes.
-Never, ever stick your toungue right down his throat.
-Think about consequences....I know this sounds Mom-ish, but suck it up. If you're out with someone you don't know very well (or don't know at all) and start making out, watch out for being all dirty. He could be the type of monster who'd do things to you and then say you "asked for it."
-Teasing, though, is good if you're doing this with someone you know and trust. Either A) eventually give in, or better yet, B) Don't. Make him suffer so he keeps wanting more. Don't tease with things you aren't ready for, though.
-PLEASE if you're having a conversation w/ ur friends and your bf walks up dont stop halfway through the conversation just you can stick your tongue down his throat! Geez not only is it rude, but its so ANNOYING
- Alter your breathing. Moaning turn both of you on so much...
- What's the problem with biting? Actually, just nibble, because you don't want to stop kissing and see that he is all covered in blood.
- And NO, there is no problem in kissing someone that wears those unremovable braces. Unless you get too excited and you bump each others teeth. That's bad. Really bad. Don't just go too fast and attack right when you start kissing when you are not sure if he is going to do the same. More chances to bumping teeth.
- Sucking each others tounge is cool. Way cool. Circles, in and out, do whatever with them. But kissing isn't all about tounges, so vary the types and speed along the way to keep it INTERESTING, not mechanical.
- Sucking fingers is cool too. Be sure that his hands are... clean.
- I second the girl that said something about going under his shirt and then out, and just lightly moving your hands through his body.
- Necks. Don't forget them. And tell your partner not to forget yours.
- Vary pressure on anything that you do.
-Shower. (This is an all-time winner)
-Make sure you don't have bad breath. Normal or minty is good. Bad=yucky. No one wants to kiss plaque.
-Treat your family nice if you're at your house...it's not a good impression if you tell your sis to "Get the hell away", even if you would normally....(that wasn't making out...oh wait-I'll randomly tie it in. If he doesn't like you, you won't make out. )
-Don't wear a strapless bra for the first time...don't wear one, period if you're like me and they fall down all the time...it's not hot to be adjusting yourself in front of him all the time.
-Don't be embarassed if you think you did bad, or if he/she pulls back and starts going again...not everyone likes to be bit, have their neck touched, etc. Experiment.
-Play with the back of his/her neck. Very sweet.
-Don't do it around your friends. They'll get sick of you quickly. Haha.
-Do something special for him beforehand so he remembers it as being a great experience. Make him cookies, write him a note, give him a small gift, something spontaneous.
-Speaking of which, be spontaneous. Don't spend time thinking about exactly how you're going to make out with him. Just go with it.
-Chocolate and strawberries...yum.
-A word on lip gloss and chapstick: where it makes your lips really pretty, it's not too fun to kiss. (Waxy lips=yucky) So you may want to use it sparingly so it dries before you kiss...
-Don't say anything to him about your ex's and other people you kissed. "You kiss differently then Bubba-Ray" may be taken as "He was better then you." Even saying "You're better then ___" could be bad if he thinks you have feelings for said person...if you're going to compliment him, just say "You're a good kisser." Don't mention anyone else...
-Don't start with the tongue right away, start with nice little sweet kisses, and work your way up.
-Remember, he has his pace he wants to go at, too. Don't rush him if he's not ready.
-Backrubs-always fun. Ask for one and see where it goes....
-Tease him. Put a candy in your mouth, a hard candy or something, like a Jolly Rancher and put it between your lips and say "if you want it, you gotta get it yourself".
-Sit on his lap, with your legs parted on each side of him and go up real close to him, guys love it just as much as we do when the guy jumps on top of us =)
-Whisper in his ear, right against his ear, so when you speak your lips tickle his ear.
-Be gentle.
-Guide his hands to where you want them to be. He is probably scared that you'll get freaked out, but he definitley wants to.
-If he asks you if he can do something, just giggle, blush and say "maybe" and kiss him. And if he doesn't get the hint that you were saying yes, start him off. ie) move his hands to wear he wanted to touch, kiss him where he wanted to kiss you, etc.
-Be spontaneous. Break out of your norm. Have you always told yourself that you'd never kiss on the first date? Try it. It's not lowering your standards or being "slutty" if you are comfortable. If you get butterflies before being spontaneous, that's ok. If you are seriously getting sick at the thought of being spontaneous though, don't go through with it. You heart is telling you that it's not the right time to try something new.
-Don't be pressured into anything that you don't want to do. You're not making out for your friends, for his friends or for your reputation. You should kiss someone for yourself. At times the peer pressure can get unbearable (especially from his eager friends who want to hook their friend up!), but never lose sight of what your willing to do and what you don't want to do. If you stick to your morals, you'll feel so much better the next morning.
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