Why do women prefer abusive, unfaithful bad boys, instead of confident, healthy nice guys?

Answer 1

Not all women desire these kinds of guys, I certainly do not.

Answer 2

not all women prefer that. allthough bad boys may be fun for a bit, most women don't really want to stay with them for a long time. right now i am with a really nice guy who isn't a bad boy and i really like him! so its not all women that prefer that... you must be looking at the wrong women because i think more prefer the confident, healthy, nice guys above the abusive, unfaithful bad boys.
good luck on finding the right girl!

Answer 3

Women don`t but some crazy females do. It depends a lot on your age and the age of women that you are dating. Immature women and poor/abused women often go with the former....mentally healthy mature women want mentally healthy men. But nice men always have something wrong with them. I have never met a man who claimed he was "nice" that I wanted to date more than three dates. They are normally unhealthily needy and weird. My current partner is fabulous but he never said it he just is. Good women are out there...try taking classes in something to find them.

Answer 4

Like all humans, women want what seems unattainable to them. Lots of them also have daddy issues so they unconsciously seek out abuse and pain.

Your choices are to play a different game or wait patiently and be a bitter pu$$y. If you're not married, my opinion is that your job is to nail as many women as possible in order to prepare for marriage - trust me, the only way you're not going to feel like you missed out once you're married is by going out and having literally scores, if not hundreds, of sex partners. That means that you have to learn how to manipulate women, to put it bluntly, and to use their foibles to your own advantage.

Thankfully, it's just not that hard to do. Take your self-professed confidence and use it for what it's really for: attracting and having as many women as you can get.

Answer 5

You must be one of the bad boys as you keep asking this question in different ways. Maybe they like the challenge in the bad boys points of view or their attitude of badness, perhaps their swagger when they walk. Different people like different things. Whatever will be will be....which are you anyway :o)

Answer 6

nice guys tend to be too clingy and often become door mats. they're easy to walk all over and that's no fun. bad boys seem to be a little bit more of a challenge and certainly make things more interesting.

Answer 7

they seem to be easier to find :0(

we dont prefer them, they just seem to have a knack for saying what we want to hear at first. Nice guys are definitly better. if you have confidence, use it, you'll find a good girl that deserves you.

Answer 8

I don't prefer abusive,unfaithful, P.O. S's

Answer 9

I think it is because they don't want someone they can just walk all over. But I prefer nice guys, just as long as they don't become stalkers, lol.

Answer 10

i dont think thats the case. i also think it is dependent on the age. but being a woman, this is what i want......
honesty, willingnes to share with me, attentive (very!) funny but serious when needed and not afraid to try new things. someone who will talk things over, and put me above all else......
thats all i can say.... just be you, and when the right one comes, she will know what shes got!!!!!!!! dont change who you are for anyone.

Answer 11

Maybe the men in their lives ie their fathers could've been like that. I don't think anyone on purposely wants someone like that. I know I didn't.