Couple days ago i overheard my brothers soon to be fiancee on the phone in our bathroom telling her friends how she loves how my family is loaded with money since my mom and dad are doctors and my brothers work for the District Attorney's office. I confronted her today, and she said threatened me to not tell my brother. And told me that he will believe her and not me. Should i tell my brother and give him the headsup?
2006-06-05 12:53:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
the bathroom is right next to my room so i didnt purposely follow her up to listen, i was going to my room.
2006-06-05 12:53:39 · update #1
Yes!!! Especially if she's using him...you don't want him hurt. Hopefully he'll believe you..
2006-06-05 12:56:22 · answer #1 · answered by Xx+Tory+xX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately!! I think that you should tell him as calmly as possible. Explain to him that you love your brother and that's why you care for him. Tell him that he deserves somebody that is honest with and is love with him and not his money. Explain how you had overheard the conversation and maybe it's a sign that the girl is no good. TRY YOUR BEST!! if he still don't listen to you, don't be mad at him. He is grown and can take his own decsions. You shouldn't force him, only explain. Let him think it over and then be happy with his decision. If he still decides to marry her, then let him. Your job was to explain and tell him the truth and rest depends on him. now or later he will find out how she really is and eventually leave her. and from then on he will actually believe whatever you have to say...
2006-06-05 13:35:15 · answer #2 · answered by GlamGurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him if he is going to marry her, he needs to know before they get married so he can sort it out more easily. It is hard to say if he will believe you or not my guess is he wont at first but he is in love so it is only natural that he will believe his fiancee. At least your conscience will be clear, and you know that you tried to warn him. But think about the fact does your brother have money or is it just your parents, as she cant touch your parents money even if they are married. So make sure you tell your parents about this.
2006-06-05 13:11:52 · answer #3 · answered by Day 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES tell your brother. You should have beat her head in when she threatened you. I'd get her, your brother and my mom and dad in one room and I would tell them you over heard her saying that. She is TROUBLE!!!!!!!
If something happens and your brother doesn't believe. The truth will come out in the end and he'll know even if it's years down the road.
Don't be shocked if he trips and thinks your making it up. Remember it's his fiancee.... Very messy!
But TELL!
2006-06-05 13:07:40 · answer #4 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to give him the heads up, but don't be surprised if he doesn't believe you. Explain the situation, and let him take it as he will. Don't exaggerate. Tell him EXACTLY what you heard, but don't let it turn into an argument. If he gets offended, apologize and leave the room.
2006-06-05 12:58:49 · answer #5 · answered by Lucas J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES do tell your brother, brothers all ways believe there little sisters =)
2006-06-05 13:00:13 · answer #6 · answered by madpl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it an admissiom of greed or just a good quality / it might just have been a conversation not the only reason she's with your brother - jic tell him
2006-06-05 12:57:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your brother needs to know that this woman is being deceitful to him. Get him in private and tell him exactly what happened. good luck
2006-06-05 12:57:14 · answer #8 · answered by Vidra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to your brother and give him the heads up. Your brothers soon to be fiance is taking advantage of your brother.
2006-06-05 12:56:41 · answer #9 · answered by susanalami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him any ways and see if he'll actually tell you and if he doesn't believe you then he will see for himself whats up in the near future or so.
2006-06-05 13:00:35 · answer #10 · answered by hoh_man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋