How do I tell a girl I like her?

Question

I have a friend that is a good friend of mine. I have liked her for years and she has just gotten out of a 5 year relationship but is still friends with her ex boyfriend and so am I. I want to tell her how I feel but havent had the courage to do so, I am also worried that it might affect our friendship.

Answer 1

"i like you"

Answer 2

You should say nothing right now. It will affect all of your friendships and you could end up friendless. Why her? Because she was what you thought you wanted? If she is the right one, then give it time. You don't want to be the "rebound" guy. TRUST ME. Meanwhile find a little something, something of your own and you may be surprised to find someone who feels the way about you, that you feel about the girl you mention. Live your life and she may see what a great guy you are and come to you on her own. You can always include her in group stuff that you are doing, like going to the pool or whatever. That is a safe way to spend time with her, and let her get to know the real you better. At any rate quit waiting on her. Meet new girls and good luck.

Answer 3

First you need to make sure wheter or not she is intrested in getting back together wth her old boyfriend before you put your heart on the line.If she claims she isn't ,try and see what her mood is like is she sad,happy,interested in what your saying.If she seems happy or intrested find a place !!!!!!!alone!!!! to tell her.Alone is very important because she may not feel the same way and be very embrassed ,not sure how she feels,or care alot what other people think.I doubt it would affect your friendship that much ,just as along as shed doesn't feel pressured to answear you right now.

Answer 4

If your like/love someone, tell them b-4 it's too late. You only get 1 life and after this life there is no more. Spend your life with someone that makes you happy and feels good on the inside as well as the out. If you like this girl, what are you waiting for? Buy her roses or something that you know for a fact the she will love! Tell her you have something important to tell her. Tell her you are falling in love with her! How do you know she is not falling for you? You have nothing to lose so go for it man! Just tell her, hey we have been friends for quite some time or for years. Tell her that you are bonding close to her and have feelings for her that you cant ignore or hide anymore. Like J Lo (Jennifer Lopez) sings, I Love. Why not dedicate that song to her! Try to take her to dinner, or someone nice, special, and then open up to her about your feelings. Good Luck Man!

Answer 5

The best only and way to find out would be to sit down alone and tell her, especially if you think she might already have a clue about your feelings. The ex doesn't matter you can tell him later but if you really care about her sit down tell her how you feel and tell her if she doesn't feel the same way you still want to be friends. Maybe the outcome will be good but you will never know unless you try.

Answer 6

spend the whole day together just the 2 of u. at sunset buy her 12 red roses, and dinner outside in a place were u can see the sun, and r alone. have a great date and walk her home. before u tell her good bye say... "i have 2 tell u something important. in your future, do u see us as friends like we are?" more 'n' likely shell say yes. look her in her eyes and say "or... do u wanna be more than that." before she speaks say. "her name i love u and even if things between us don't work out ill always love u. i wanna spend my life with u." then let her talk. if she rejects u tell her u still wanna be as close as u r right now.

Answer 7

everyone seems to be asking questions like this ... i'm the kind of person that has to go one way or the other, i don't do the middle road. so here are two roads for you one: you tell your friend that you've liked her for the longest time or two: you just watch your friend from behind and help her through relationships with other guys. first road, the one where you tell this girl you like her, it may ruin your friendship, it may not- take the chance or just be the awesome boyfriend she'll never have ... just take the risk ... take it

Answer 8

You can do it two ways:

1) Get a friend to ask if she likes you and tell her that you like her. This is easy and if she doesn't like you/would probably say no, it would save you some humiliation.
2) Or, you can tell her yourself.

I think you should wait a few weeks to let her forget about her break up, then ask. It'll be better if you give her some time to heal. Hope she says yes!

Answer 9

I'll tell you how my now husband let me know he liked me. We'd been friends and worked together for years. He wasn't at all my type but he was a great guy. He drove me home from work one night and I invited him in for a drink. After about 1/2 he left so I walked him to the car. We were saying goodbye when he gently grabbed me and kissed me and said he's been wanting to do that for a long, long time. I was in absolute shock at the time but it wasn't long after that, that we were a couple and have been for 14 years now. I certainly don't recommend this for everyone but it sure worked for him. Good Luck.

Answer 10

Well I am a girl so take the advice from me. Look up her phone number and say that you need to have a talk with her. Just tell her how you feel. That is what I did with my boy friend. He told me that he felt the same way. Now do you understand?

Answer 11

I think that you should just be honest with her and tell her how you feel. Just make sure that her previous relationship is actually over and that she has had time to heal. 5 years is a long time and depending on how it ended she could need some time alone.