2006-06-05 12:05:51 · 15 answers · asked by boyluvr26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's how you feel about yourself...He is your boyfriend so he likes you don't worry about your looks just be you and you'll be fine...It's not the cover of the book that counts it's the inside
2006-06-05 12:09:04 · answer #1 · answered by Lori H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats because you are comfortable 'hiding' behind your phone, but you feel insecure when that facade is gone.
Try and relax and dont be too judgemental about yourself.
You should learn to loosen up a bit, after all, he is your boyfriend, not your dad!!!
Analyse why you are comfortable and then the next time, you talk to him on the phone, tell him things you normally would tell when you meet him at school. Also ask him what he thinks about you..
Make him feel comfortable about you, and he will return the favour
Keep talking and gradually, you will warm up to him.
Cheers!!
2006-06-05 12:13:56 · answer #2 · answered by stillfreezing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol.......that's perfectly normal. I remember dem dayz. Just do stuff that you guys both like doing such as movies, go to the basketball games etc. you can start with pop corn and move up from there as you may be still a bit uncomfortable to have a "big" meal with him. As time progresses you will become more comfortable with him..............have fun!
2006-06-05 12:10:12 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is possibly because as humans, we were designed to socialize in an onpen manner. To face situations on a one on one basis. When we are on a computer, usising the phone etc, its aesier to express ourselves because nobody is there that can hurt our feelings, or vice versa.
2006-06-05 12:08:38 · answer #4 · answered by geniusflightnurse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first didnt let people tell you "oh then hes not the one for you", what do they know (no offense) something is telling me that you guys are stating out or close to that, just take your time and spend minimal time with each other in person and each time spend a little bit more time and get comfortable, and obviously you want to get comfortable, hes the one you picked, dont let people tell you this isn't for you because your the only one who knows that.
2006-06-05 12:15:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a general rule of thumb, you might take into consideration that if you're nervous talking to your bf, it probably isn't meant to be. real relationships are built by two people who aren't scared to talk to each other. seriously..break up and give yourself some time. my guess is, he's just not right for you.
2006-06-05 12:08:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get nervous `cuz u need to get COMFORTABLE talking to him in PERSON. Spend some time with him...instead of being on the phone with him...also because u have nuthin` to talk about upclose...find sumthin` interestin`...
2006-06-05 12:08:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ur thing is kinda like mine i can talk to him on line but not in school haha well the only thing i can tell u now is to just be ur self i mean hes ur boyfriend right??? so be cool otherwise he might get kinda feel werid to hang around u not to be mean or anything so wish u good luck
2006-06-05 12:22:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well wheni was in school i got nerviouse to talk to him cuz of the kids would make funof me but now that school is over i can talk to him all the time and if u truly love himthan show itmore by tlking to himif your worried about alking to him than try to talk to him away from ppl
2006-06-05 12:10:16 · answer #9 · answered by ashley o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
funny, same goes for me too.
just ignore the nervousness and just talk as if you were on the fone with him. look him in the eye when you talk to, because youre looking down alot, he might get offended. dont be intimidated, hes your boyfriend !! (i should be taking my advice too, har har har) good lucks !
2006-06-05 12:09:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋