There's this guy I've been seeing... he is not my boyfriend officially, but there was something like a commitment between us.. i found out that, that he had something with this other girl, which at first he denied, accepting it afterwards... he still looks for me.. i know he cares about me, and he asked me if he still had a chance with me.. I'm afraid.. cuz i really love him, but I'm scared he'll do the same, once we have a serious relationship. what shuld i do??? can i trust him??
2006-06-05 12:03:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if it is done once it will definitely happen again, forget it and move on.
2006-06-05 12:06:50 · answer #1 · answered by r.pl@btopenworld.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A dog does not change it's spots over night. If a man cheats once, he'll do it again. Move on sweetie, there a plenty of men out there who are willing to treat you right. He's just keeping you on the line in case this thing doesn't work out with the other girl. Tell him he had his chance, and he blew it.
2006-06-05 19:07:20 · answer #2 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
faith is binding honey. can you trust anybody? whether he'll cheat on you or not would depend on the level of intimacy and commitment that you build amongst you. people cheat bcoz they are not loved truly n wholly. n sometimes i dont know - you love em with all your heart n still it happens. if you cant decide what to do, then maybe its not the right time to make a decision. let time decide.
2006-06-05 19:11:23 · answer #3 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself a favor don't think with your heart think with you head on this one, he did it once if he loved you as much as you think he does I'm sorry but he could have never done it in the 1st place. And the 2nd time around never works out just another heartache waiting to happen , take it from me I definitely have the experience on that one.
2006-06-05 19:09:41 · answer #4 · answered by chemicalbrothers13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody makes mistakes sometimes.....but I'd still be cautious, because a lot of people who lie or cheat keep doing it, even if maybe they are a little more careful/sneaky in the future.
2006-06-05 19:07:40 · answer #5 · answered by sarahfancher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't trust him. He did stuff behind your back and lied to you. What more do you need? If you do give him a chance, in 2 weeks you'll be writing back into here saying should I trust him again? Don't do it!!
2006-06-05 19:07:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup you can.but before you get serious with him..ask him and let fully understand that he will just adore u and no one else that he must leave that girl if he really cares for you.give him another chance who knows he will be honest and be good to u,Just let him decide first who will be..
2006-06-05 19:09:57 · answer #7 · answered by effy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is blind, but u have to study him very well before u accept him so he will not play a fast game on u
2006-06-05 19:08:36 · answer #8 · answered by omosehin a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! my sister gave her boyfriend like 5-6 chances within 7 years that she was with him and he still left her!!! its up to you, but if I was you it would be NO!!!!
2006-06-05 19:11:41 · answer #9 · answered by madpl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what you should do is follow your heart and see if it says give him a second chance. If you really love him then you should follow your heart and not your what if questions.
2006-06-05 19:07:34 · answer #10 · answered by mrs.humphreys313 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have learned from personal experience that men can never change a pattern.. i stayed with a guy for 4 years and he never changed.. always cheated and always lied... do not put yourself through that.. move on and be happy and find someone who doesn't lie and cheat.. if you stay with this guy you will be miserable
2006-06-05 19:13:40 · answer #11 · answered by ~MRS. PILKINGTON~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋