By this I mean, someone she could see herself marrying and being with for the rest of her life..
2006-06-05 11:50:39 · 32 answers · asked by Frank 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont treat her so nice, nice guys are friends not lovers.
2006-06-05 11:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by zw88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I understand it is actually tough for a real nice guy to get noticed that way. Girls say they like nice guys, but what they really end up with is some hot guy that treats them like crap...they don't see it.
I've had a couple nice guy boyfriends and sorta had a conversation with them about this. One was a virgin and this is what he did...
he went out on practice dates to get more comfortable talking to girls; didn't matter the girl because they were only practice dates and potential long-term friends if he wanted. once he found someone he was interested in, he slowly started talking with me here and there. I wasn't too talkative with him because for one I was shy and second I had a boyfriend. But we kept hanging out...not often, but enough because it was all college work related. Eventually I broke up with my long distance boyfriend (no never cheated ...it was for the best and had nothing to do with this guy). Then summer break came and I really wanted to stay in touch with him cause he was a good guy (husband material but I wasn't thinking that fast). We exchanged yahoo messenger IDs and talked that way.
I think I am rambling and off track now but back to the point...
He practiced, he researched about woman and what they like, he was always honest and talked about his feelings BUT, he did it very strategically and subtle with me at first. And on the first date, if you can tell she is interested in you, make a move...if you're not sure and you guys have a great second date, definately make a move then.....cause she probably wants a kiss, even if she is shy.
I think if you have quite a few dates and nothing happens she starts to think of you as just a friend...just don't do the opposite either and try to get her into bed right away.
I honestly think you just haven't ran into that one special girl...and once you do, she will see you for who you are and a potential husband. good luck
2006-06-18 05:52:50 · answer #2 · answered by xalsk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing is finding out what a particular woman want for a husband or romantic. If you fit the type they will like you.
2006-06-17 16:25:24 · answer #3 · answered by tannya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are already friends with a woman it is harder for her to look at you in a romantic atmosphere. Meaning she won't want to ruin the good thing that she has with you already. Be nice but don't be her shoulder to cry on right away.
2006-06-05 12:21:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
b a gentleman tell ha all da thangs a lady loves 2 hear n c like diamonds
women like 2 hear u say i luv u evry once n a while n sumtimes evryday but u no women luv men who can change from immature 2 mature n can share thier true feelings n its ok 4 guys 2 cry n plus sum gurlz think it is sexy 4 a guy 2 show hi emotions like if a guy gotz 2 cry
2006-06-17 04:20:23 · answer #5 · answered by ♥KiYa♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not true, women like nice guys. Give it time and I am sure that this woman will start to look at you a lot differently. Sometimes it take us just a little longer to notice a really good guy.
2006-06-05 11:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I were just friends until one day he stayed later at my apartment than the rest of my friends and then before he left he just turned around and kissed me smack dab on the lips, then left.
It gave me a great surprise and gave me time to think about him and our relationship.
We have been together 15 years now and have two children.
2006-06-18 12:11:25 · answer #7 · answered by lajefa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think just be yourself. Don't try to be something ur not caz girls like guys who r original. Well that's what I think. Just be urself caz a girl will love u by the way u r. If u try to be something or someone ur not, then the girl will fall in love with someone ur not. I don't know if u understand me, but she'll not fall in love with you, she'll fall in love with someone else. Ofcourse there's some tips and advices, but unlike other people, that's what I like about a guy.
2006-06-16 20:16:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the things she needs to hear too, not just the things she wants to hear. Show her you love her by telling her, and flowers are always a plus! Also, if you're already good friends, it'll be hard to take it to the next level if it wasn't already in both of your minds, yanno? but if it's in her mind too, then hey, go for it! I'd ask one of her friends if she's said anything, as cliche as that may sound. Good luck!
2006-06-18 00:02:32 · answer #9 · answered by High On Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't live with regret ... by that don't regret not having made your feelings known .... start by building your friendship into something else. How about calling or face to face and just ask "I'd like for us to go out this Friday ... before you say yes or no. You need to understand I mean as a real date ... I'm asking you out." If she agrees you start from there ...
2006-06-17 15:41:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is all in your actions, not pretty words... show her you are true,Show her from your heart! Be Romantic! Be thoughtful! Be marriage material! And maybe you are perfect husband material...but not for this girl... good luck.
2006-06-18 08:16:54 · answer #11 · answered by 4mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋