Whenever i get a girlfriend we are close for about a week , then she breaks up with me and has nothing to do with me! what the deal?
2006-06-05 11:26:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are young and so are the girls you are attracted to. About a week is right. The older you get, the longer they last.
2006-06-05 11:29:45 · answer #1 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe in that week they realize you are not a good match, or maybe they want to 'collect' guys for a while.
All you can do is keep trying, and eventually you'll find a girl that you have a lot in common with. Don't get discouraged. Dating is hard at the beginning.
2006-06-05 18:31:57 · answer #2 · answered by purplewings123 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, all you really have to do is prove you are attracted to her.... My b.f.'s mostly didnt do that and thats why we broke up me and kyler wouldnt have broken up if we talked together and got to hang out... But the point is tell her once in a while " I love you" and she'll think twice about breaking up. Also helps if you call her on the phone some... if you need more help e-mail me at: rai31193@yahoo.com
2006-06-05 18:40:47 · answer #3 · answered by Rai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing that i can think of is that you're coming on too strong. spend that week (and definately longer) trying to get to know them, not trying to get any commitment out of them. dating is fun when it's a mystery, so don't spill your guts to a girl--let her wonder if you like her or not. i know that when a girl plays hard to get i tend to want her even more, and when she's making herself too available that i lose interest. there's a happy medium somewhere in there though
2006-06-05 19:24:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, they probably don't know the real "you". You need to tell them more about who you are and be yourself. They think they know you and you turn out different than they expected. Then again, it could be a low time in your relationship life. If any further counseling is needed, message me. Best of luck.
2006-06-05 18:32:32 · answer #5 · answered by Soul Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its happened to me a few times. Maybe after that week things change in her that makes her not like you
2006-06-05 18:30:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you have to approach her more. im a girl and a girl wants a boy to protect and love her as much as she loves you. Also, try talking with her and calling her up. if they break up with you then its their loss. if you need ne more help email me at greendayluvr4evr1@yahoo.com
2006-06-05 18:32:45 · answer #7 · answered by suzanne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dont get upset about it,this is how almost everybody starts off,unless they're really lucky and in love, it'll last forever..but don't give up young one,giving up is not an option,believe me..
2006-06-05 18:32:23 · answer #8 · answered by Luis L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it applies the cliche word's not you its about me"maybe she feel she really not happy with your part or wants more than a relationship...or she's just being impulsive when she answers you and get back to his senses.but trust me maybe she's not really meant for you...
2006-06-05 18:32:37 · answer #9 · answered by effy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be a real looser to lose a girl that fast,buy the end of the first week i am usually in their ....
2006-06-05 18:30:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋