2006-06-05 11:16:10 · 13 answers · asked by Breeeee<3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
and i have a boyfriend!
2006-06-05 11:27:35 · update #1
aww Sorry to hear that. You can probably try to calm down and do things that you know would make her happy.
2006-06-05 11:18:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understand that your Grandma was a very special person to you, and that you miss her tremendously. You may have feelings like this for a long time, and you should not ever feel bad about that. Dont let anyone tell you to just get over it. Be very happy about the time that you both were able to share in this journey that we call life, and be happy with the thought that you and she will someday be able to expand on this journey in another life. It is natural to grief for the lose of a loved one, and there is no magic potion or spell or anything that can take those feelings away. Just remember that we all grieve in our own way, and that your way is what is really best for you, and don't be ashamed about it at all.
2006-06-05 11:22:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything wrong with the fact that you still cry when you think about her. As long as it isn't controlling your life I wouldn't consider it a problem. The main thing to remember is that your grandma would tell you cry if you must but all the wonderful memories are there to be smiled over instead.
2006-06-05 11:21:03 · answer #3 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a dear older friend die a couple of years ago. I collected things that reminded me of him; tobacco, feathers, leather, cat hair (from my cat's brush), a vile of salt water, etc. See he loved cats and had several, was in the coast guard, smoked, loved native American items and was a cowboy. I took each small item and put them in a leather pouch. It is hanging above my bed for now but when I am ready to "let him go" (not the memories, never the memories) I will do a little ceremony and put a note in it then fill it with rocks and drop it at sea.
Maybe that helps?
As for my Grandma.....she died right before I graduated from high school. For graduation I wore one of her necklaces and felt like she was there with me. When I had my baby I asked my mom to bring the necklace, but she couldn't find it. I was all distraught. When they laid my baby on my tummy, she looked JUST like my Grandma! I believe that was her way of telling me that she was there no matter if I have the necklace or not.
Moral: They are always with you, you never have to worry about that!
Love her, grieve her, but don't let it consume you! She wouldn't want that for you.
2006-06-05 11:29:06 · answer #4 · answered by T2Step 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad died when I was 11 yrs. old and I still cry!
How do I deal with, I live on and try to make them proud of me!
I symptomize with your loss, and I know personal how the loss feels, but I know your grandma wouldn't want you crying over her memory.
She is in a better place and free from worry. So, be happy and know that she is somewhere special...
2006-06-05 11:21:58 · answer #5 · answered by missionman1914 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom just dies last year so I know what you are going through. I still cry about her. Grieving is a process and it takes time. You never really lose someone as long as you remember them and hold them in your heart. It will take time but eventually the hurt will lessen. So hang in there.
2006-06-05 11:21:36 · answer #6 · answered by meggiek97 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One time I got food poisening all over from a chipmunk, so I ran through the house barfing and goin all over the floor, looking for the garbage can. Then I wet myself, leaving a stain in the carpet, AND ON THE WAY I SPILLED JUICE ALL OVER THE FLOOR!!!!THEN I MADE SOME MILK USING MY INDOOR COW, AND SPIT THAT ALL OVER MY WIFE!!! SHE WAS ALL LIKE WASSSSSaaaaaa!!!!sdsd#@!@#!@#!... I WAS ALL LIKE, SORRY PAMELA ANDERSON!!!!AND THEN I MADE TOFU AND SOME ALFONSO AND A BUKET FULL OF PIZZA HUT AND WAASSSAAABBII AND TUESDAY AND KAREOKE MACHINE, A LIL HUMMER, AND THEN SOME OF MY GRANDMA, EMINEM, MIX IT ALL TOGETHER AND WAT DO U GET? LAMASOAIANOEDAMNCZZQWTIYUODGJ!... VERY GOOD GIRLS!!! COME BACK TOMORROW FOR SOME MORE CHEARLEADING PRACTICE AND REMEMBER, WHAT LITTLE CHICKEN WENT TO THE FARM, ELMO, TOOT TOOT!!!!BUT IT'S OKAY JERRY SPRINGER CUZ I WENT THERE WHEN I MADE FAST BEFORE THE COPS GET U WHEN THAT LIL TOOT MOAJE FARMER TIN CAN SOUP !!!!!!! ONCE UPON SOME OF THAT LIL GIRL!!!!!!! EAT UP!!!!
2006-06-05 11:33:20 · answer #7 · answered by thejonsta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that there is anything that you need to do. Grieving is a natural process and you have the right to do so no matter how long its been. I lost my mother two years ago and i still mourn. Don't worry, you just get stronger with time.
2006-06-05 11:21:03 · answer #8 · answered by crazy4pumps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear of your loss, it's never easy to get over that kind of loss.
Only time will heal those wounds, and everyone grieves at their own pace. Some recover quicker than others.
That loss will be with you forever. but the pain will lessen over time.
This is still fresh for you, and all you can do, is try to cope with it, best you can.
It will ease, just try getting back into life, life is for the living.
2006-06-05 11:20:28 · answer #9 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend, granma has been called home to a place where there is no pain, or suffering.
She would not want for you to be sad, but to enjoy life to the fullest.
BE HAPPY...
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2006-06-05 11:44:52 · answer #10 · answered by Angel Wings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋