Best friends for 2 years went through relationship, family ordeal and a lot. We ended one night both single at the time slept together, then started a relationship lasted a year.Back and forth though always come back.Now he said he wants to move on for good.Should I let him be?I feel I lost the man and also the friendship.But what I got out of it to experience what love felt like the highs and lows.
2006-06-05 11:14:56 · 13 answers · asked by Amry 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have a strong history with your friend, but if they want it to stop you should do as they wish. If you really love them, you would want them happy; even if it is with someone else. Then again, keep an eye on them, they might need your support later. You are going to have to play it by ear, but If you love them it will be alright. Message me if you need further counseling.
2006-06-05 11:22:10 · answer #1 · answered by Soul Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he was a good friend to begin with then you should stay friends.
It's possible ... just be happy that he wants to be happy and he feels he can't until you both move on from your relationship as boyfriend girlfriend.
Sounds like you two have been through a lot of things together and there's no reason to throw that away because you guys didn't make it as lovers - try being friends - true friends unless you can't get over your own feelings for him !
2006-06-05 11:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer to the question is confusing except you have been there and that i've got. I wont bypass intimately yet i think of which you would be able to provided which you somewhat wanna be. I observed him as a pal interior the inbetween yrs additionally and now i see him as nevertheless merely a pal even nonetheless all of us comprehend each and every thing approximately one yet another. yet to me there is often attraction climate or no longer you act on it relatively is a various tale. have been the two nevertheless drawn to one yet another yet comprehend it is going to in no way ensue lower back. merely be chuffed to have him in 365 days existence. because of the fact i think of God style my pal conventional!!
2016-11-14 06:33:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be a difficult friendship after you were in a relationship, and will definitely require the work of both parties...
2006-06-05 11:19:18 · answer #4 · answered by SKully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both parties need to be into it to remain friends. Chalk this one up to experience and move on.
2006-06-05 11:18:39 · answer #5 · answered by zw88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that... yeah.. I'm a friend w/ x .. Our relationship lasted 6 yrs..
2006-06-05 11:18:38 · answer #6 · answered by AzNgUrL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes why not he was your friend at first and then it bcame something else so why throw that away my wife still stays in contact with her exs i would but mine are over 300 miles away
2006-06-05 11:19:03 · answer #7 · answered by baldyhugsblues 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can... But stuff gets uncomfortable for a while.... If the two of you can still get along, i say you'll be fine.
2006-06-05 11:17:45 · answer #8 · answered by Rai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my x and I are still freinds . married 20 years, been divorced 6.6 years.
2006-06-05 11:19:21 · answer #9 · answered by mldoucetsr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've tried that it doesn't turn out well at all he hates talking to me and he's turned like.........crazy
2006-06-05 11:18:48 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋