When someone says, "I love you," what does it really mean? Are there degrees of love, and of deception? How can you decide where you are on the Love Meter? How can you trust what you're hearing? Who should be the first to say it: guy or gal?
2006-06-05 11:12:44 · 6 answers · asked by In Honor of Moja 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when the idea first pops into your head .. let it settle for a week or two. really evaluate.. its one of those things she'll remember. hypothetically if you leave her later -- she could always nail you with the ' but you said you loved me ' speech.
on the other hand i think saying it really cements the relationship.. and both people are more willing to love. it grows and deepens. leave room for doubt too -- its all part of it.
just know how to you feel at the end of the day.
2006-06-05 11:17:39 · answer #1 · answered by sugrsmtr287 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel it back then it is true. There are different degrees of course but the general usage is more of a lust than a true love. You should only say it to a few people in your life, if its more than that you are over using it. And it doesnt matter who says it, it should be true for both people.
2006-06-05 11:17:04 · answer #2 · answered by zw88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they say the love you they probly do and if the gal says it first your good!
2006-06-05 11:16:52 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not ever say it in the "heat of passion" nor believe it if you hear it during the mentioned. That would constitute as LUST not LOVE. BIG, HUGE difference.
2006-06-05 11:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by becky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy is the first!! they love you if they will do anything for you and if they mean the world to you and no one could ever takes their place....love is love...nothing more..nothing less
2006-06-05 11:16:03 · answer #5 · answered by HLL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion guys should say I love you first
2006-06-05 11:15:32 · answer #6 · answered by Charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋