Me and my ex broke up a few months a go, just because we were both really busy and didnt have time for each other now he wnts to meet me. Me and my mates reckon it is just for sex, though when i said this to him he said no its not, that he still cares about me. I just want to find out wot other people think of ex sex and would u do it?
2006-06-05 11:00:03 · 19 answers · asked by Sparkle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi there well is there anyone else in your life at the moment -would you be cheating on them if you did go with him again?.Do you want to have sex with him again?was it painful when you did split ?if there is no one else and no painful feelings when you split
and you did enjoy sex with him before why not again?Who knows you may both realise you made a mistake and get it on 4 good!
2006-06-05 11:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by paul b 1 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Ex sex? Mmmm tricky - if you still even slightly care for him DO NOT go there, if the feelings are truly gone then its a one night stand with the additional benefits of he knows what you like and it doesn't count as a one night stand as he is an ex.
Did it before personally in my case it was a mistake as I still had feelings for the man, so if you are going to do it to see if you can get back together restrain yourself and wait if not go for it - you only live once.
2006-06-05 18:40:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally identify with you.
Its a very bad idea, because it will always stir up old feelings. You have closure now so don't open the door again. He probably wants to get back together or just for sex. If he does only want sex, you are better than that, you have more self respect than that.
Good luck!
2006-06-05 18:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by TellMeWhy? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think sex with an ex is the best now and again, you already know how each others bodies work and what makes them tick sexually if the two of you are not with anyone whats the harm
Set boundaries though dont let him use you, if the relationship is going nowhere for him and you feel different stop having sex with him, I have had experience of this situation and it worked for me although its over now. good luk hun
2006-06-06 02:51:51 · answer #4 · answered by harrierzero1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did it. Bad idea because one of you get the old feelings back and the just thinks it is a booty call.One person get's hurt, besides why do you want to go backwards in life go forwarded.
2006-06-05 18:25:38 · answer #5 · answered by Amry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it... If you split amicably, then ex-sex is fine...
And besides, if you still like each other, it can help the relationship restart when things are better...
Also helps if he is good in the sack!!! ;) If he ain't, where your best BIG panties!!!
2006-06-06 03:54:16 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is just for sex. I have done it on many ocassion.Only because you are comfortable.Yes I would do it, but if you are not comfy, tell him to go pound sand.
2006-06-05 18:10:08 · answer #7 · answered by Texas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad idea there is a reason why he's your ex if you two were meant to be you'd be together no matter how busy you are
good luck
2006-06-05 19:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by Trish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you don't whether this IS just what he wants.
Maybe its what you want....
However emotionally it can be a bad idea, one person gets more attached the other wants to move on.
but if you can sort that out then sure why not.
2006-06-06 11:54:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ex sex is a very bad thing!!!!!! it will bring back old feelings that you had for him and then he is gonna drop you...and you will still like him and he will move on
2006-06-05 18:03:05 · answer #10 · answered by HLL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋