I care about my bf i realy do. But the way we've been fighting lately just annoys me. And it make me think twice about commiting to him. I dont want to break up with him kus i care about him alot. I just dont feel like being all i love you and mushy and talking about the future. How should i explain it to him without losing him completely? i feel like im walking a thin line here
2006-06-05 10:49:51 · 12 answers · asked by xbinary_dreamsx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ive heard theres no such thing as "slowing down"
2006-06-05 10:50:22 · update #1
Buy a rabbit, and boil it in his stove.
2006-06-05 10:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by znnyz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him... get him alone and tell him how you feel. Men sometimes have a hard time understanding us so you should explain your feelings as simply as possible (lol). If he really cares about you, then he'll understand and attempt to fix the problem. If he doesn't, then he'll start another fight just to get out of the confrontation. You'll know for sure then if he understood.
2006-06-05 10:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't talk to him for 2 days and make him think what has happen. if he cares, he would call. if he get angry at you, then you know this guy doesn't want to commit. because if all he care is about himself, then just think for yourself. guys are nice, but they can be an asshold once you tell them no. So think for yourself first. losing him completely is scary, but you have to understand, if this is the way, than that is it.
2006-06-05 10:56:07 · answer #3 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him while you do care about him, there are problems that are causing you concern and make you hesitant to commit until those problems can be solved. If he really cares about you too, he will help solve the problems insteading of fighting about them. Commmitting without solving the problems first are not going to make the problems go away.
2006-06-05 10:56:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is such thing as slowing down ya'know. i'm doing it right now!
you both have to be honest with eachother and explain to eachother how you feel. there is nothing worse than thinking you have a future with someone when you really don't. be honest with him and i guarantee you will both feel better.
2006-06-05 11:02:05 · answer #5 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him dat u jst want 2 b frndz!it will take time but if in the end he dusnt agree to u being just frndz snd him a lttr expressing ur feelingz if it still doesnt wrk hez nt d rite guy dearie
2006-06-05 10:55:18 · answer #6 · answered by Meghana Singh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you care, that you want a break because he's smothering you, and that you'll see how things go in a few months at a slower pace.
2006-06-05 10:55:16 · answer #7 · answered by Howdy! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being intimate with him until you are ready to be serious, if he doesn't love you, and doesn't want to wait, you guys will break up
2006-06-05 10:58:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well talk to him about it and if it doesn't work out than just be friends
2006-06-05 10:53:36 · answer #9 · answered by lillian.karson_9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you two have to go out and talk about your situation.
2006-06-05 10:53:58 · answer #10 · answered by Oriel-Nirnaan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋