She hasnt called back?

Question

I met a girl thru eharmony, she seemed to be a decent and smart girl also very hot. We went out on date on sat , we were having a good time (or atleast so I think). While leaving I asked her if we could go out again and she said sure.

I called her on monday night since she was busy sunday to thank her for the good evening. I wanted to see her again so I called her on wednesday and left her a message, she didnt call me back. I called her again on saturday night but didnt get a call back. I called agian on sunday night and got her on the phone.She said she was a bit sick etc and was going to watch a movie,. she said she will call me on monday . But its been two weeks and no call from her.
I havent called back , could u explain wat is going on with her and waht should be my next step attitude and strategy cause I think she is worth the wait.

Thanks

hi guys,
Thank you for your response.I appreciate your feedback. I called her and she told me that she was sick for a week and busy with work the next and has agreed to go out early next week. Need good second date ideas. We live approximately 40-50mins apart.

my ideas
after dinner *
*1 mini golf
*2 bowling
*3 walk in the park
*4 walk on the beach(drive to beach 50 mins)
*5 dave and busters arcade (again 50 mis drive could have dinner/drinks/games here itself, but a long drive to get there)

gifts if any?

Thanks

Answer 1

Give her another call and ask her if she wants to continue to see you or if this is just not going to work. I feel that being honest is the best way. If she doesn't feel the same way about you as you do about her then move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea.

Answer 2

Listen, I will be honest with you if no one else is. She is not into you. It happens. You went on a first date, and you can't expect EVERY girl to like you on a first date, can you? Imagine she was NOT your type? She would be on here instead of you, asking the same questions.

My suggestion to you is, move on, don't call her anymore. You left too many messages and she knows your number. Get on line and click NEXT! Good luck. There is someone for everybody. She may have been "hot" but she is definitely NOT worth the wait.

Answer 3

Hate to say it sweetie, but it seems she's not interested in you. She's being rude and stupid about it however. If she's acting this way now, imagine how she would be in an actual relationship? You're probably better off without her and just move on. Women like her give the rest of us a bad name.... good luck with your search!!!

Answer 4

Truly i think she is cheating talk to some boys around ask them if they know her if the do ask if they've got anything goin' on with them. If they went out once or twice ask for the date if it was one of the days you were waiting for a call let her go.

Answer 5

You are a god damn moron for using e harmony. What's the matter? can't find girls by yourself? The ***** t ceo of e harmony makes money off shut ins like you. This is really pathetic. Do us all a favor and just off a bridge or OD on something.

Answer 6

hey man leave her i mean stop cuz she is just tourching you (she thinks that you love her to death.....well maybe you are)
but any way s t o p YOU KNOW FORGET HER ALITTEL DONT CALL HER AND sending her messages for awhile and she feel the gap the you left she will start to send you and call you in that case you are free to do (to dump her or answer her calls
0 its you disicioun i just gave you the solution
goodluck
and i hope the she starts to call you

Answer 7

Yeah, its done dude. I dont know why girls cant just come out and say "im not interested." Dont call anymore because it will just get increasingly awkward and stalker-ish. You made a good attempt though.

Answer 8

It doesn't look good, buddy. Maybe she just isn't right for you.
If you think she's worth the wait, then wait. But you might miss the next Mrs. Right while you're waiting for this one.

Answer 9

Right now , you are too desperate.
People can easily sense that and are turned off by it.
Stop calling her.
Go on with your life without thinking of her.
She will call if she feels like it.
Work on being ok with being by yourself.

Answer 10

well,probably she doesn't like you or she found a better guy after she went out with you so she forgot you.call her again and tell her that u want to meet her.be sure that u get an ANSWER from her.not to tell you call me later or something.yea thats what i do.good luck mate;)