I am 19 y/o guy and in my second semester of college and never kissed or touched a girl at all. I think girls are really attractive just always to shy and no girl ever interested in me. I like many things but the one thing I have done most my life is box. I am damn good at it too when I was about 15 started sparring guys most were 40 pounds + over my weight and in there 20s. Boxing has been natural for me unlike girls. So I will probably go pro. haha so I guess I got off topic just how much I like boxing. ALright so I think its time I just gave up hope on ever finding a girl. I have never even been able to talk to girls much. I dont know I guess I was just meant to be alone. I dont know there is just a part of me that is always thinking about girls and some day getting married. I am slowly getting rid of that feeling though. NO girl has ever been interested and I think its time to just forget aboutit and move on. What do you think?????
2007-12-31 18:56:16 · 19 answers · asked by I like to drink 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Also is it weird that I never went to prom or any of that
2007-12-31 18:58:57 · update #1
no I am not gay
2007-12-31 18:59:21 · update #2
I dont have any friends that are girls
2007-12-31 19:00:39 · update #3
aw don't give up you're only 19 seriously
i guess the only thing you can do is to try really hard to conquer your shyness
girls probably aren't attracted to you because you seem so shy and also a lot of times shy people are misunderstood, people think that the shy person thinks they are better than everyone else so that's why they don't interact with them. also shy people can be kind of intimidating because you don't know whats on their mind. (im shy too)
i think a lot of girls are attracted to you, i mean if you're as good a boxer as you say you are, you must have a pretty hot body
2007-12-31 19:01:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have got to get rid of the shyness dude. U have got to make urself talk. When u pass a chick, just say whats up @ first. You will always get a response of hi or something of that sort. After a lil time U will get more comfortable with girls. Another fix for u is catching a buzz,(alcohol that is). Alcohol is liquid courage when it comes to women, so long as you stay in control and dont get sloppy drunk. Go to parties!!!! When u turn 21 and can roll up in the bar, U can guarantee on gettin laid.
2007-12-31 19:04:21 · answer #2 · answered by WT 101 PROOF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think anyone is meant to live their life alone.
and maybe you just aren't seeing the girls who ARE interested in you. you're just seeing the ones who areN'T.
expand your social circle and meet new girls. don't approach them with the intention of being their new boyfriend or anything, but just be their friend first.
i would say that some of the best relationships started out as friendships first. and after all, you can never have too many friends! :]
but also, girls are funny - they won't show interest in a boy until he makes some sort of move first. i don't mean "move" like swoop in and kiss her! just talk to her, use body language, etc. you'd be surprised how far flirting will get you. :] trust.
hope you find the right one! :]
& happy new year's.
2007-12-31 19:05:01 · answer #3 · answered by goldfish3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck w/ the boxing! I think that maybe instead of looking at every gal as a potential date - look at them as a potential friend. If you have a few friends that are women, then you'll probably get more comfortable talking to them (plus, women friends have friends and they would be great for advice).
I went to college w/ mostly guys (engineering) and had more guy friends then women for a while! (It evened out as I got older!). It's an idea. Plus you're still young, so there's loads of time to meet a special someone (and a brand new year to do it!)
2007-12-31 19:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by iam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right. Give up, if you don't have a girl by age 19 it isn't going to happen, after all you are probably only going to live to be 90, so time is up.
Doesn't sound quite right does it? You are barely out of puberty, there is plenty you have to learn about life and attracting a girl, and there is time to do it. Try this site...sosuave.com
2007-12-31 19:05:08 · answer #5 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are making yourself unapproachable. If you become friendly, then you will soon get a girl. Start by asking a question about something small. Try just looking at a pretty girl and smile.
2007-12-31 19:07:09 · answer #6 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you are so normal. I was extremely shy up to around your age. Once you get over your fears a bit and ask some girls out, your confidence will grow. Have a good time and don't be too hard on yourself.
2007-12-31 19:02:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no its not that girls are not intrested in you...infact i think as you are a boxing champ and going to become a pro soon....there are even more gals who are intrested in you and would like to date you or go out with you.....but but but
here comes the bitter part....the reason that you arent getting direct signals from gals or arent being asked out is coz you your self are acting a bit arrogant....though i know you dont mean to be arrogant and are bit shy but still....when you act shy and dont converse with ppl they think that you are arrogant and hence get pissd off and dont show any intrest.......
and in order to mke gf's and all....1st of all the most imp thing is converse...and tlk to gals...and becum frnds...making a gf is the 2nd step only after you know each other and hve been frnds for a while......so dude stop being shy in tlking to gals...and strt tlking....and do remmber that they wont eat you if you talk to them :-).....hve fun...
2007-12-31 19:38:19 · answer #8 · answered by ~if u hve Q i hve d prfect Ans~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahaha...well. Arent there girls watching your matches too? Maybe you can start a convo about boxing with one of them. Then whatever happens from there.
2007-12-31 19:00:52 · answer #9 · answered by jykicks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask a friend (girl) for a help
2007-12-31 18:59:48 · answer #10 · answered by chingun_g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋