This guy on my hockey team hooked up with my cousin and then started talking all this sh!t about me. Well he didn't know that she was my cousin so she told him and flipped out at him. Like I usally get something from someone about me being the only girl on my team. And being a girl and playing hockey. I play for my JV high school team. But I never thought it would come from one of my team mates. And I still have half the season to go and I don't know how i'm supposed to play with him when I know he goes around and talks trash on me for no reason other then cause i'm a girl. How am I supposed to play with a guy on my team that trashs me because i'm a girl. What should I do????
Thanks
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2007-12-31 18:47:34 · 15 answers · asked by hockeyislife 2 in Sports ➔ Hockey
and my coaches arn't to good at listening espacailly cause he's like one of the best on my team
2007-12-31 19:11:06 · update #1
Try to ignore him. You need to play for the team and to try to win for the team. You aren't playing for him or trying to win for him. Do it for yourself and simply ignore him. If your the only girl on the team then that shows that you are a pretty good player and that you deserve to be on the team. If he talks trash about you behind your back he's just afraid that you will get to be better than him or show him up one day. He's just scared to say it to your face.
2007-12-31 19:39:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I know you want your team to still win despite you all differences, so continue to be a good team player even if it means gripping your teeth while playing next to him. I'ma tell you something I learned a long time ago that as long as someone is talking about you that lets you know that you are being thought about. On another note you can approach him and ask him if you have done something or offended him to the point where he feels like he has to bad mouth you. Other than that keep it moving hold your head up because guess what??? There is always going to be somebody who talks about you, and if you spend all your time worrying about why they dont like you then guess what maybe there is a reason.
2008-01-01 08:05:04 · answer #2 · answered by D.P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, Happy New Year.
It seems that you have a situation that isn't girl-friendly. As far as this knucklehead is concerned you can't do anything to adequately on-do his selfishness and stupidity. His actions have placed you on the high road and just staying true to yourself and your team will show that you already have more character than he will ever hope to have.
2008-01-01 04:38:34 · answer #3 · answered by Awesome Bill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're on the Ice, put it aside and get on with the game.
It might be hard at first to "forget about it".
I really don't like one guy on my team, but I don't show that I don't like him.
I'd rather put the s**t aside and get on with the game. after all you are there to play Hockey.
It's pretty shitty that he is going around saying stuff about you, teams should be buddies, it makes it easier to play and it's more fun that way.
Maybe even suck it up and confront him after practice one day, just ask him why he said what he said and what makes him think that about you.
Sort it all out before your next game.
Don't get all bitchy or anything, jsut talk it over and you never know, you might find that after talking about it that you will get the respect you deserve from the guy.
2007-12-31 19:14:01 · answer #4 · answered by icon6668 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
just blow him a kiss right before you give him the old famous Up the --- (butt) pass. normally that will take care of him.
PS. if he is playing JV, he is probably not that good anyways.
or you could just remind him, the game of hockey is all about respect,
respect for yourself
respect for teammate.
respect for coaches and parents
respect for officials and the game
respect for the opponent
2008-01-01 07:30:05 · answer #5 · answered by s2monk75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 easy answers....first, dump the puck in the corner..hold up for a sec..make sure ur abt a foot from him..take him to the corner with a cup-check(other arm up for the back of the neck hit)swivel hips and crash him hard.....secondly...tell all the girls at school u saw him in the locker room and he has a small thingy....that will circulate fast and he will be laughed at...then later ask him how rumors feel...(ask that after the season)
2008-01-01 00:46:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blow it off who cares what the azz hole said he is just jealous that he doesn't have the nerve to be his own person...keep going strong girl show him who he is really dealing with and that your not messing around when you play...it will bug him more than EVER if your just nice and act like nothing ever happened trust me this works :) tell me how it goes if he trashes u behind your back he is just trying to hind his weaknesses and put the focus on u!!! don't give him the time of day he has nothing on you! ; ) stay strong!
love Haley...aka Happygilmore
2007-12-31 19:15:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Deck him in practice. lol. Otherwise, talk to your coach or school councelor. Mabie you and he could get together and work it out. Hope all goes well for you. Congratulations on making JV.
2007-12-31 19:08:30 · answer #8 · answered by Josh 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait until you're playing a scrimmage in practice and deck him out. Then give him a snow shower right in the face! Then yell at him: "WHO'S THE GIRL NOW????"
2008-01-01 03:00:04 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. Ralph B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your hockey life seems like a low budget soap opera. Hopefully this year will be better.
2007-12-31 19:45:14 · answer #10 · answered by Vinny 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋