2007-12-31 18:38:34 · 9 answers · asked by leabar_68 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It has come to fighting over everything. Divorse is so easy but is it truly the right thing to do?
2007-12-31 19:02:35 · update #1
It would help if I spelt divorce correctly...
2007-12-31 19:03:37 · update #2
I am where you are ..
I think its cause spouses grow differently .. where one is further than the other .. or one spouse thinks the other is wrong ..
Get this, our pastor counselor tells hubbs he needs to do this this and this .. hubbs, looks at him, shakes his head yes .. goes home ... ignores and just keeps doing what he thinks fine .. say what?! If you are religous and you ignore your pastor .. wow .. lol
We have 3 kids too .. they are my life, literally ..
If you want to email .. I'd love to talk .. mbfqueen @ msn . com
Good Luck!
2007-12-31 19:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by Queenie` 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this day and age, 25 years is a long time to stay married. I commend you on that. Have you tried a trial seperation? Have you both sat down together to figure out when and why all this started? If counseling hasn't worked and you have both truly tried, then maybe it's time to let go. Life is too short to be fighting everyday. It may be time for you both to go your seperate ways. GOOD LUCK!
2007-12-31 19:19:38 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really i don't know whats the reason make you think about divorce .but i think there is not reason deserved to ruin your life .Please think about your kids and try to renumber nice times you have been spent together duribg the past 25 years .Divorce should be the last thing in your mind.
25 years are extremely grat period betwen pair.
2007-12-31 20:40:45 · answer #3 · answered by Mohammad H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce
Or
Get your balls back and regain her respect.
From your point of view this is almost impossible.
You should read this e-book http://thegreatfemalecon.com/ albeit it is likely too late for you. You need to think of what her options are. In this country she has the option to totally F-you over. She will exercise this option when she feels it is time (likely soon). So her behavior is very bad. And there is no penalty for her doing this.
You better prepare!
http://www.divorceprep.com/html/product_info.html
http://www.fathers-resources.com/Blog/tabid/581/Default.aspx
A very good attorney (don’t be cheap) is what you need to be thinking about now.
2007-12-31 19:35:58 · answer #4 · answered by tom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a great book called THE DANCE Of ANGER it is amazing. You guys will see your pattern of arguments and the parents of each of your extended families. Then you change your dance. Change you way of communications. Take time to be a couple.
2007-12-31 18:59:25 · answer #5 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
May be the best option for you is to split if you truly feel all is lost and not working. Although that would be a real shame, maybe its for the best.
2007-12-31 18:54:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's all the fighting about? The kids, the money, the sex, the insurance or what? Figure out what's REALLY wrong.
2007-12-31 18:53:05 · answer #7 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both deserve happiness. If you can find it elsewhere, I suggest that you mutually agree to divorce.
2007-12-31 18:50:39 · answer #8 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce.
2007-12-31 18:47:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋