i could have gone and hung out with friends or family yet i passed it up to spend tonight like every other night alnoe? whats wrong with me?
2007-12-31 17:30:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
but i dont want to be alone, im sad.
2007-12-31 17:34:05 · update #1
That's how I am sometimes too!
I thought I was the only one!
Maybe we do it because we like to avoid social situations?
2007-12-31 17:32:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No come on... go out have fun. Try moving to a new city all by yourself with no family and friends! not THAT'S sad.
As long as you got your family and friends you have NO reason to stay alone. But maybe you're sad about something else. Is there someone you wanna be with that isn't there for you?
2008-01-01 03:01:57 · answer #2 · answered by The Beast from the Middle East 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe something inside of u , is holding u back, u probably don;t know what it is. maybe u feel depress or misunderstood because the way u act. something is holding u down, u don't know how to express your feeling toward people, instead u decide to be alone, because u feel it better, what u need to do, it to get yourself out of this box that u are in, and have confidence in u and have confidence feeling comfortable around people, but first u must feel comfortable being u.
2008-01-01 01:44:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you don't like mundane superficial people and situations. I don't. Maybe you are very intelligent and looking for higher things in life. Maybe you want to know the meaning of life. In case are here is the meaning of life in a nut shell. We are not this material body, IE; Race, color, nationality, Religion, mind, intellect, senses, job, etc. We are all eternal spirit souls, part and parcel of the Supreme Soul, also known as Krishna, Allah, Jehovah, Vishnu, etc. We never die, only this mortal body dies. This material world is not our real home, it is called Maya (illusion) and is temporary and full of misery, only one fourth of the souls come here, and the rest are enjoying blissful eternal loving relationships with our Maker named above. We fell here due to envying Gods position. He made the material world for those who want to try to live separately from Him (Which is impossible because He is actually everywhere). After many lifetimes of trying to be happy in this temporary world, one becomes frustrated and board and begins to question their existence. We then seek out real happiness, and when one becomes sincere God reveals how to come back Home. Those who are intelligent, take up the process of self realization (Bhakti Yoga), which begins with the chanting of the Maha Mantra, (the great mantra for deliverance from all suffering and illusion), which gives one real peace, happiness and reality. Then at the end of life, they can give up all material attachments and fully surrender to God and return to the eternal Kingdom, where there is no more birth, death, old age, or disease and be eternally happy. For info. Go to harekrishnatemple.com Read Bhagavad Gita- As it is by Bhaktivedanta Prabhupada asitis.com can be read on line.
2008-01-01 01:40:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
nothing, you just like being by yourself, nothing is wrong with you.. Maybe you are in pain or your not in a good mood, cheer up its the "Most wonderful time of the year" like the commercials say. Get outside, enjoy life for what it is, if you don't like meeting people in real life you can always use aim text or call em. =D atleast get some social life in your busy schedule because being away from people for a long time will drive you nuts, atleast it would for me. My brother is kind of like you to, he likes being by himself, while I am a people person, there is really nothing wrong with you, sometimes its good to be by yourself and listen to your thoughts and think about things. Take Care =)
2008-01-01 01:35:39 · answer #5 · answered by the s0urce 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Antisocial behavior can be results of depression.
See http://www.helpguide.org/mental/depression_signs_types_diagnosis_treatment.htm
check it out to see if you are experiencing other symptoms. Regardless of the reasons for wanting to spend time alone, maybe 2008 is the year to focus on YOU. :)
Have a happy new year
2008-01-01 01:35:24 · answer #6 · answered by Sunshine29 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would ask you the same question, what's 'wrong' with that? Are you more comfortable alone? Do you prefer your own company? That's not wrong. You're fine.
2008-01-01 01:35:15 · answer #7 · answered by AK 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm the same way..i just don't want to be bothered sometimes,its very normal...everyone needs their space(=
2008-01-01 01:34:22 · answer #8 · answered by xoyoung_and_inlovexo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Einstein didn't like to hang out with crowds either
2008-01-01 01:34:16 · answer #9 · answered by saveitok 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you just wanted to kick them out so you could enjoy your little porn you found...lol
trust me.. i was like that
2008-01-01 01:33:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋