...and he looked at the number but didn't answer it? He would immediately delete the call. Would you believe him if he said "I didn't recognize the number" when you asked him why he didn't even answer the call?
2007-12-31 17:29:45 · 19 answers · asked by Angelique 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
People who have nothing to hide... Hide nothing!
2007-12-31 17:33:01 · answer #1 · answered by Voice of Reason 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Same thing happened with my husband. Texting and phone calls with a girl from work. I confronted him with a text message I intercepted on his phone ... he denied he knew who it was and then really quickly erased it. I knew he was lying and started keeping track of suspicious behavior and then checking his bill. I was right ... he was lying. I confronted him with an ultimatum and we're now in counseling.
Trust your gut! You can tell when things aren't right. I second what another poster said ... make a note and check the phone bill. If you see that number on there more than once, I'd ask him about it. I've been there ... sorry you're there too!
2008-01-01 21:32:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get calls all the time on my cell phone and don't answer them. My wife asks me from time to time who they are but she believes me when I truly say I don't know who they are or I don't recognize the number. You also need to define the term delete. Is he just pressing a button to ignore the call or is he completly removing the number.
2008-01-01 02:43:25 · answer #3 · answered by semperfi_922 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is important and you need to listen:
He's cheating and you are a fool if you think that he is being honest about that whole phone thing.
2008-01-01 02:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
once maybe but NO WAY, HOSEA!
2008-01-01 01:58:51 · answer #5 · answered by baseballdad69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't answer unknown calls but I also don't delete them right after they call. If that was my husband, I would definitely question him. That's really suspicious.
2008-01-01 01:56:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. Once or twice I wouldn't think about it. If it became a regular occurrence, I think I would ask.
If there is nothing to hide, then he has nothing to worry about.
So it seems a little odd to me.
I wish you the best.
2008-01-01 01:45:41 · answer #7 · answered by Sapphire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I had cause to believe he was cheating, then I would be concerned. I too have done the same thing. I don't give my cell number to just anyone, so I don't expect just anyone to call me. I too don't pick up on numbers I do not know. I delete the calls also. If you think there's more to it. Stop asking question and start investigating.
2008-01-01 01:40:57 · answer #8 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would think he is cheating, it would be one thing to look at the phone and not answer it but to delete it right away says coverup to me i don't answer my phone sometimes when i don't recognize the number and sometimes even when i recognize the number i don't always answer it, but i don't go out of my way to delete it right away, if anything i would keep it and maybe dial it back later to find out who it was later when i had time, are there other things going on that has your radar going, if there is then it is a good bet he is messing around
2008-01-01 01:39:22 · answer #9 · answered by Dale T 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Believe me there's something more. I know when my xtb's g/f calls him because sometimes if i'm around he'll look at the cell, delete or turn it off and I immediately know it's her. Thank God i am moving out soon.
2008-01-01 01:39:00 · answer #10 · answered by Candle Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignoring it is okay..getting rid of it straight away...abit weird..
2008-01-01 01:37:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋