2007-12-31 16:57:26 · 8 answers · asked by Aqua 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he can't decide if he want a wife or still want mommy....mommy has probably spoiled him pretty good.... so he is used to getting his way... she probably tells him everything he wants to hear....so you have a problem...he doesn't want to let go of that...you can tell him that you are his wife now .. and its time to grow up and be a man....this can really break up a couple... its not fair to you either....he really isn't a man... he is a mama's boy... this is the worst kind...
2007-12-31 17:24:39 · answer #1 · answered by Sharon C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do some women feel it necessary to compete with their mens mothers? Face it, its his mother, and you are his wife. You are trying to tear apart a bond that started way before you. Men who respect their moms, or "mamma boys" are more than likely to treat the other women in their life with respect. Do you really want to be with a man who would kick his mom to the side for a women who could be out of their life just as quick as they came in it? Moms are forever,,wives aren't. OK LADIES, DON'T GET PISSED, BUT ITS TRUE. Try and show some loyalty to your man the way his mom does, and I bet you get the priority.
2007-12-31 20:15:14 · answer #2 · answered by ckgene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol...I do feel for you, my 6yr boyfriend is like that with his sister.....I just finally over the last few months started breaking the habit for him by showing him that I can ignore him as well and shove him aside and he started noticing it and things started to change.... good luck
2007-12-31 17:19:20 · answer #3 · answered by drama_xxx_queen28 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Level with him...if he can't be arsed to consider your opinions and desires then let his mother take over and move on with your life.
2007-12-31 17:16:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
when husband and wife consumate the marraige they 2 are one
Mummy is not the priority, but the wife
Be warned however
do not nag and whine
make a decision about his involvement with her
and stick to it, so that all fighting can cease
but be warned that you do not change the deal and play the obnoxious and jealous wife
you must work an agreement about this issue and
STICK TO IT 100%
2007-12-31 17:14:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This guy will never change. You'll always be number two. Send him packing and move on with your life.
2007-12-31 17:14:13 · answer #6 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ugh - honey you can't do anything with a mama's boy. His mother owns his balls and she knows it and will block anything you try to do to get them back. All you can do is talk to him and tell him that YOUR opinion should be the most important to him....not his mommy's. Geez....I have no respect for guys like this. I think it's the ultimate in being a complete coward. Who has ever heard of a grown man being AFRAID to disappoint his MOMMY? Seriously?
2007-12-31 17:02:11 · answer #7 · answered by bestadvicechick 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
The next time he wants to have sex, tell him to go find his mother.
2007-12-31 17:00:51 · answer #8 · answered by feline_farmer1 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋