When a guy is with his girlfriend or common law wife and falls in love with another and leaves his gf/common law wife do you think its the other woman's fault or was the relationship he did have ending anyways? Can you tell me about a situation if you have had left your gf for another and did you regret leaving her for the other one? And if you did or didn't regret it please explain why.
2007-12-31 16:16:19 · 7 answers · asked by guardianangel2008 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Neither. It's not the other woman's fault, and the relationship wasn't neccesarily ending anyway. The guy is 100% responsible, both for letting himself fall for another--you can guard your heart if you really want to--and for acting on that and leaving.
Been there, done it. Let myself fall for another, left the old for the new. I don't regret it--New was better for me than Old, and we were neither married nor engaged so I didn't betray any vow, but I don't kid myself about what I did. It was very rough on Old, she didn't deserve to get hurt like that, and it was 100% my responsibility. It wasn't New's fault, and had she not come along, or had I smothered my feelings for her early rather than letting them develop, things with Old would probably have gone on for a long time.
2007-12-31 16:23:33 · answer #1 · answered by Biff Loman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was married and now divorced gal and never cheated that.s why i divorced her hon and found this great gal and we get along very good she.s the best thing that happened to me dating her now for.3. years now she great really.
2007-12-31 16:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they have to think about it... sometimes, law wife mayb too concentrate about her carrier than leave the husband behind.... but sometimes the guy might be boring with his gf n cannot be loyal..... and.... the new gurl is always flirting the guys until they fall in love
2007-12-31 16:24:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never ended a relationship because of another woman in my life. That is just stupid. How would that woman ever trust me. I would think that in the back of their mind that they would feel that I would leave them just like I did to the one I left to be with her. Its a cowardly thing to do. It makes it easy to leave one relationship when you have another one waiting. It does not give you a chance to correct mistakes made from the previous relationship.
2007-12-31 16:23:32 · answer #4 · answered by ckgene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes a married guy looks for other affairs cause he is unhappy with the one he is in .the divorce he is striving for is only picking up speed by having extra marital affairs
2007-12-31 16:23:15 · answer #5 · answered by greengrass44444 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what makes you think it is only men who leave their mates for another..???
2007-12-31 16:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by wrathofkahn03 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact he let her become a common law wife shows that he wont commit. If he would she would have that ring.
2007-12-31 16:20:19 · answer #7 · answered by thatguy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋