how old are you?
do you mind when guys you don't find attractive check you out? do you mind when hot guys check you out? do you mind when guys who look very young and innocent check you out?
2007-12-31 14:31:43 · 24 answers · asked by ? 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
be honest. i'm asking because i'm not attractive looking and i'm don't look young and innocent either. i never feel welcome checking women out. if i was a cute guy, i'd feel like i was paying her the best compliment i possibly could.
2007-12-31 14:38:18 · update #1
I do not mind being "checked out" - and it is not my place to think the guy has to be attractive to ME or not. I have had guys of all ages shapes and sizes check me out, I take it ALL as a compliment.
ON THE OTHER HAND, I do NOT like hearing any kind of comments or STARING. Looking is all good, but anything other than that invades my space and that makes me an unhappy camper - and I have NO problem making THAT obvious in return.
2007-12-31 14:53:55 · answer #1 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 7⤊ 0⤋
I've hated it since I was 15 and became a 36B. Guys still talk to my breasts, not my face (I'm now 44DD). I don't care if you're attractive or not, it's rude. If you look longer than a glance, and stare, I find it creepy. I also haven't liked being yelled at, whistled at, or "discussed" by guys out their car windows, yelled at out of windows in upper floors of buildings, or when walking by me on the street. I expect that crud in bars, that's why I don't go to them. When a guy refuses to stop staring at me, I assume they're a sicko or psycho. btw: I'm 49, and they still look.
2008-01-01 04:27:41 · answer #2 · answered by edith clarke 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone finds me attractive, I take it as a compliment. But only if they clearly communicate that they find me attractive, like tell me I look nice, or even an old fashioned wolf whistle. If by "checking you out" you mean just staring, that's creepy.
2008-01-01 06:03:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol thats funny guys are just as shallow as women if ur not a size 5 most guys dont want nothing to do with u . if u dont want to have sex with them right away your not worth knowing so im fat and ugly so guys dont check me out
and im 23
2008-01-01 07:44:46 · answer #4 · answered by nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 21. It all depends what you mean by 'check you out'. If you mean finds you attractive, looks at you and seems very interested then I am flattered whatever they look like. But if they are just staring at my body I find it insulting whatever they look like.
2008-01-01 00:34:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont mind if anyone checks me out so long as they are not starring at my crotch, or just plain starring in such a way that gives me the immediate feeling their a serial killer. LOL
2007-12-31 18:38:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, when someone is glaring...that's really creepy!! I have big breast, so I tend not to appreciate the attention too much. I'm kind of use to it.
A smile is nice.
2007-12-31 18:32:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good question. It occurred to me that the answers I see here are feminist, so I posted the same question on the Singles & Dating forum. Answers were significantly different. To be honest, I think the more common answer depends on whether she digs the guy... but I'm a guy, so I can't really answer this question.
2007-12-31 17:35:28 · answer #8 · answered by the dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ask their age they dont like it. but you have to be very actractive in your dress thoughts and talks its should be very polite kind and lovely manner. dont ever go after them let them come after you..... good luck
2007-12-31 17:17:55 · answer #9 · answered by Handyasian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it too much, baby balls.
2007-12-31 16:48:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋