I was married for 14 years, my husband cheated and is being verbally abusive towards me. How many people out there that have been treated this way have had thoughts of wanting to seriously hurt that person?
2007-12-31 14:31:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I was married for 17 years. At 14 years I found my wife was having an affair. She did not end it...kept it up...and became emotionally and verbally abusive to me. I had great fantasies of doing great harm to her and her lover. In the end, I realized she isn't worth going to jail for. So I divorced her. Your feelings are normal. Don't go to jail for this jerk. Get a new life.
2007-12-31 14:59:06 · answer #1 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, except I dont' want to hurt him physically, but I really want him to feel, emotionally, the hurt and pain he has cause everyone that comes in his path. I do not wish him happy life, but a very miserable one. Ok, I know, I have to get over it.
2007-12-31 23:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by SweetSurrender 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone wants to get back at someone whos hurt them but its when you act on it and actually do it.
2007-12-31 23:07:35 · answer #3 · answered by Amy D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married over 37 yrs. & have not been in your shoes, but please find help. Some one good to talk to could really make a difference in your life. Not just a friend but a professional. maybe a counselor, pastor, etc. Good luck sweetheart & happy new year!
2007-12-31 22:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by joie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best revenge would be a GREAT attorney!
2007-12-31 22:43:11 · answer #5 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to get even is to divorce him,, and make a better life for yourself ,,and find someone who is kind and faithful,, Happy New Year and God Bless
2007-12-31 22:40:54 · answer #6 · answered by George 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...but could I have done it....NO.
I always envisioned smacking my ex in the head with a frying pan, while his drunk abusive *** slept. I left him, we divorced, I deserved better. Don't ever accept less than you deserve.
2007-12-31 22:40:34 · answer #7 · answered by Cheri >^.^< 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get too caught up in your thoughts of hurting him. You will find yourself in more pain by wanting the person that hurt you to be in more pain than you. Your instincts say different, but our instincts don't always have our best interests in mind. If you really want to hurt him, show him that your life is moving on without him. That will mess with him more than if you take a baseball bat and crush his skull with it.
2007-12-31 22:40:22 · answer #8 · answered by ckgene 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
everytime that happens to someone those thoughts come along. but after a while you relize that hateing them doesn't do anything.what he did will always hurt you, but at least you can move on and look into the future if you so choose. let the past behind you, and those thoughts of hurting him will slowly fade.
2007-12-31 22:40:01 · answer #9 · answered by lillian w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well' my mom had this boyfriend a long time ago like 7 years ago that abused me.i was only 5. i had a bad dream and he put me in timeout. he slammed my head into the tmeout wall because i left my room from timeout to go potty. he took my pants and underwear off and hit my but with a belt. he also hit me upside the head 10 times with a thick hard cover book. right now, i want to beat the living crap out of him. i am an iceskater and i want to use my toe pick ( the thing you jump off of its in the front of the blade) anywho and pick him to DEATH!!!! he kept me away from my daddy for 1 year. he said right in front of me that he wanted to throw my dad in the road in front of our house. it was a busy road too.
2007-12-31 22:39:08 · answer #10 · answered by chelbellelski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋