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i am 22 yrs. old, about 5ft 2in and 108 lb. i'm in good shape, but i don't diet or spend hours in the gym to stay thin-- i guess i just inherited a fast metabolism. other women always tell me that they hate me for being so small, which i guess is supposed to be a compliment, just not a very kind one. the thing is, it seems that most guys prefer women who are a little fuller/curvier. i've tried to gain weight without too much success, but then i think that maybe that's kind of silly and i should just be okay with how i am. i just feel like being so petite makes me look too childlike and being teased about my size makes me so self-conscious. is being thin really not that attractive?

2007-12-31 13:07:42 · 30 answers · asked by nicalese 3 in Beauty & Style Other - Beauty & Style

30 answers

Medium is nice

2007-12-31 13:09:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4 0

Thin is good but by thin i mean healthy. dont try to gain wait. just eat healthy like you normally are

2007-12-31 15:34:42 · answer #2 · answered by Erika 3 · 0 1

I think for your height that weight is perfect. . . if you weighed any more, you would prolly start looking chunky and have love handles etc. which is something I'm sure u do not want. . .

I've been thin my whole life, and had no problem with guys, i'm 5'4 and weigh 117, and i used to weigh less than that and still no problem with guys.

guys like a girl who looks cute overall, and some guys prefer really petite girls and some guys like bigger girls, it all depends on the guy.

so dont feel bad, im sure many ppl find you very pretty and many girls would love to have ur body.

girls in shape are adored by media otherwise you wouldnt see petite little girls in magazines - i mean, look at victorias secret - those girls are so small and every guy LOVES them... so just remember that, every guy wants a gf that looks like that, most guys i would say cuz some guys are just weird and want bigger girls, and almost all woman would kill to have a body like them.

thats what i think about, i can be one of those girls in those magazines -and that makes me happy. :) so u should be too! and who looks better in a bikini ??? think about that as well. LOL.

2007-12-31 13:30:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

If you eat good then great you are the right size. If you do not know the old saying "they don't get any skinnier with age so pick a small one" You are ahead of the game esspecially ifin your mother is a nice size so that the prospect can see what you will be simuliar to in the futer. Nice to have a few curves but nothing to big that will grow into bigger curves ten years from now. The big thing is just have confidence in who you are and that you are fine just the way you are. If you need any of us to help out that confidence of yours just post your pic and we we will let you know how good or not that you look.

2007-12-31 13:20:53 · answer #4 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0 1

of course it is
bones sticking out ......... maybe not

but do u really kno anybody who has a goal to be fat ......... no
how many ppl do think are makeing new years resolutions to lose weight ? ........... probably alot
everybody seems to wanna be skinny so there must be sumtin attractive about it
skinny is good
skinny with nice curves ........ even better ( =

2007-12-31 13:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 2

thin is attractive, as long as you're not anorexic, i mean why do u think supermodels who are lyke 90lbs are picked to wear beautiful clothing

2007-12-31 13:16:27 · answer #6 · answered by Tina G 3 · 0 2

Men have different tastes.
Many men like petite women.
So thin is attractive but at the end woman character is much attractive than her being thin or curvy.

2007-12-31 13:14:59 · answer #7 · answered by TK 2 · 2 1

your weight is great for your height. i personally prefer thin, also when someone compliments you bye saying they hate you, it is a compliment so enjoy it. Asians Lady's are typical thin because their eating habits are good. to prove it check out the site cherryblossums.com and click on to any Asian country for girls and check out their height and weights and you will see what i mean.

2007-12-31 13:14:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 2

just be greatfull your not fat! then you would really feel bad.

guys like me who are 5'5 125 lbs need girls like you, because a guy my size doesnt date a girl who is bigger then him, so someone like you would be perfect for someone like me.

2007-12-31 13:13:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 3

OF course not! Being thin is wonderful to me. I'm thin, and I love being thin.
Your friends are jealous of course...so don't talk about bodies too much.
Well, I mean a little chubby is sometimes cute too....but I like slim and petite! So much more model-like! But bony thin and anorexic thin isn't attractive.

2007-12-31 13:13:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 2

slender is in fashion and it is healthy unless if it's tooooo thin

2007-12-31 13:09:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2 3