i work as a call center supervisore at a mobily provider. my shifts are from 13:00 to 23:00. i have a wife who who works at collage's HR from 08:00 to 16:00...
my life feals like hell cuz 90% of my lifs is at WORK and i cant even go out with her or even my friends.
i cant even buy a gift for her. so i need the best advice about this BIG ISSUE.
2007-12-31 11:02:19 · 9 answers · asked by Brave Heart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She loves you..right? You love her. Right? Of course. Sometime down the road you will find another job which pays well and has daylight working hours which will closely match hers.
I can remember when my parents had to work separate shifts when I was little. What they did was to meet for lunch as often as possible. They laugh about it now and say aloud they were not quite sure how all of us kids came along! Then they really laugh loudly and smile at each other. Of course, we all know what they mean but it is funny to listen to them and hear the love in their voices and the laughter comes from their hearts.
Just be patient.. God will send you what is needed exactly when it is needed. Remember to laugh with real joy and relief and be glad the two of you belong to each other.
Write her lots of love letters. LOTS of them. Even if you think you are not such a great writer..write them anyway. That will keep her heart beating for you and yours for her.
2007-12-31 11:38:19 · answer #1 · answered by juliette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her! Go party with your friends! Enjoy life.
2007-12-31 19:49:42 · answer #2 · answered by K M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
figure out whats more important and put that ahead of every thing cause am sure that on your death bed you will not left alone at your job am sure you will ask for you wife so make it your business to change your schedule or job
2007-12-31 19:31:26 · answer #3 · answered by MEETOO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have any trouble finding similar work at a company where the hours co-incide with your wife's. How can you ever make a life together when you are working different hours? Night shift is a disaster at the best of times (I do the same hours you do - similar work as well.) Unless your wife can change her job, you will have to change yours and yours are the worst hours so start searching...
2007-12-31 19:16:38 · answer #4 · answered by ozinnz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change jobs
2007-12-31 19:12:02 · answer #5 · answered by who WAS #1? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write her love letters and leave them for her when she gets home. let her know she's always on u'r mind and that you miss spending time with her. let her know how much it hurts you to not be able to be with her as much as you want to.
2007-12-31 19:11:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
One of you should change jobs!Happy New Year!
2007-12-31 19:09:32 · answer #7 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer is very simple either cut back on your hours or find a different job more suitable to your spouses hours or just make the most of the hours you two do share together, or work together
2007-12-31 19:09:19 · answer #8 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a new job
2007-12-31 19:08:47 · answer #9 · answered by amt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋