i listened to what all these people said but im still having trouble having an orgasm while masterbating. i cant reach it.
i have come sooooo close too. rubbing my clit dosnt work for me i rub above where i pee and i get all the usual signs you know like increased wetness and my legs start shaking. i start to get extremely sensetive right there and so i consentrate on the feeling and try to relax but i still cant reach it. i cant look at porn to help start me up because im on the laptop im borrowing from the school. anyone got any tips? please? while im rubbing myself i try to fantasize about sex but its just not working out. help?
2007-12-31 10:56:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Perhaps you are medically 'fridgid'. you could of course be a young boy, who finds, pretending to be a girl, and interacting with people about it, sexually arousing, in which case you can easily reach a climax by moving your hand fowards and backwards, on the dangly thing on your forehead.
2007-12-31 11:03:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
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try some ice??
2007-12-31 18:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by sweetstuf215 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Some points:
- You need to vary up what you are doing. A guy can get off by manipulating his member, but girls are ... different. Change what you are rubbing, add baby oil to the rubbing, etc.
- women often 'plateau' where their excitement does not progress. Stop for 5 minutes then come back.
- Women have to be in the right mental state as well as physical. Take a sudsey or oil-filled bath, shave your legs (and perhaps other parts), lotion yourself all over and climb into bed. Being warm and relaxed and smooth first might help.
2007-12-31 12:17:05 · answer #3 · answered by Grumpy Mac 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
its all mental not physical. try having sex with somebody. trust me you'll get one when you actually have sex!! :)
2007-12-31 11:23:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Try an electric massager on the outside of a towel or wash cloth. Definitely don't look at porn on your computer, unless you plan on watching some pretty sick stuff. Rent an adult movie from a video store. Try not to worry if it's going to work for you or not, a lot of it is mental. If you try to hard it will feel good but go numb. Give yourself a break at that point. Try again in about 10 minutes.
2007-12-31 11:15:21 · answer #5 · answered by Rene O 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Stop thinking about it so much. Relax and let it come naturally (no pun intended).
2007-12-31 11:06:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to be extremely careful about saying these sorts of things on line. If you are having trouble with this, ask your doctor or go to a sex help website, not porn. I don't mean to lecture you but be careful, this is some pretty intimate stuff about yourself.
2007-12-31 11:01:26 · answer #7 · answered by Goldie Locks 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
try shoving somethig up there, something you look at and say damn, that wont fit, but you try anyway.
2007-12-31 11:00:49 · answer #8 · answered by Josh H 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
sounds like you need another person to help out
2007-12-31 11:00:47 · answer #9 · answered by Charlie H 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Wow. I feel all gross now. Go ask your mother. The internet is crawling with perverts. Questions like this scare me.
2007-12-31 11:00:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋