When I drink, I get slap happy... and today, I drank and I slapped him across his face. I don't know why I do it. Most of the time I'm just joking around... but now, he is threatening to get out of the relationship if I continue.
I'm female. He is a male. It's not like I severely hurt him and he IS stronger than me. I am in medical school, so he will need my income as well. What is his problem?
2007-12-31 10:52:38 · 55 answers · asked by Gracie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What would possess you to do something like that.. ..if you know you get violent when you drink why drink at all. just cause your drunk doesn't mean your joking around. it means your abusive and if it was him slapping you there would be an astounding get out of that relationship as fast as you can.
hope you understand where i am coming from
2007-12-31 11:01:07 · answer #1 · answered by are ya fer real 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
His problem?
it is YOUR problem. You are abusing alcohol and then physically attacking him.. That is YOUR problem. Stop drinking forever and stop committing battery on your husband. Domestic violence is disgusting no matter who does it.
2007-12-31 11:27:55 · answer #2 · answered by juliette 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i have a friend who also gets slap happy when she drinks maybe i should introduce you two i can just picture a beginning of a beautiful friendship blossoming
2007-12-31 11:23:32 · answer #3 · answered by MEETOO 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
His problem is he's married to a nut job like you. Hit and be hit. Any child will tell you that.
He deserves better than you...show him my picture
2007-12-31 11:13:46 · answer #4 · answered by beckoningsubstitutes 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You need to be VERY careful. If he calls the cops and you get a domestic violence charge, you will have a VERY hard time getting your license. AND if he waits to divorce you AFTER you do get your license, he'll get alimony.
Anyway, what you did is mean. I suggest anger management. I know you weren't mad, but you have SOMETHING going on there.
Physician: Heal thyself!
Good luck and best wishes.
2007-12-31 11:02:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this... what would YOU have done if he slapped you?? Domestic violence is a serious issue/problem where it is usually the woman being hit and a lot of times she does not report it to the police and does not get help for anyone. That is why the laws have changed where if the police even suspect there is abuse, they can press charges without the woman having to do it. Now why should that be any different if the guy is being abused?? He surely is not going to report anything for fear of looking like a wimp. I think you should count your blessings that he did not hit back where he would be totally justified. I think if you are hitting him (or anyone else for that matter) when you are drunk, you have some serious underlying issue that you need to work out.
2007-12-31 11:02:27 · answer #6 · answered by a a 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What is his problem? Are you stupid? You HIT HIM! What would you do if he hit you? "oh my god my husband is soooo abusive im gonna put him behind bars he is a loser and..." well you get the picture. Just because you are a female and he is a male doesnt make it ok. You obviously dont respect him or love him for that matter if you did you wouldnt have hit him. DRUNK OR NOT! Just because youre in med school doesnt mean he "needs your income" for christs sake he is a man! He doesnt need you! "Whats his problem?" HAHA get a life ho...
2007-12-31 11:01:45 · answer #7 · answered by Serious Shuck 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
stop putting your damn hands on him .. b4 he slaps your *** back
2007-12-31 11:00:05 · answer #8 · answered by kmd110685 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
his problem is that you ****** slaped him...
2007-12-31 10:55:47 · answer #9 · answered by o.fellow 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Let him sex you up.
2007-12-31 10:55:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋