In your opinion is it jealousy or just playing it safe if you feel the need to know where your husband is all the time and who he has talked to?
2007-12-31 10:31:08 · 17 answers · asked by Felicia *Proud Mommy Of 2* 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We were in a long distance relationship and we got together i noticed he had been on a game on the internet on his phone and all his friends on there were girls and he was doing this when he told me he was sleeping at night he told me he was just talking as friends but you never know. I went though all his phone records abd he had never talked to any of them but it kinda stuck with me and i felt the need to be more cautious.
2007-12-31 10:40:07 · update #1
Your married and you have every right to know where u'r man is at. and know what he has been doing and talking to as well.
2007-12-31 10:35:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't sound like he is but I'd maybe keep an eye on it.
2007-12-31 19:27:52 · answer #2 · answered by sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has a history of cheating then it is playing it safe or gaining evidence for the divorce. If he has never given you any reason to doubt him then it's jealousy and your issue to work through.
2007-12-31 19:18:36 · answer #3 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl nothing is wrong with that don't listen to these people you got to do what you got to do to make sure your man ain't mess around on you h e l l I do it to. I spy all the time and don't plan on stopping anytime soon. Don't listen to these people answers half of them do it and just do want to admit it.
2007-12-31 19:16:50 · answer #4 · answered by LivingMyLife 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
As someone else said if you feel like cheating is going on, it probably is. I was with my ex for 17 yrs and never checked up on him or felt the need to. When he started acting strange, I started checking and sure enough he was messing with the next door neighbor.
2007-12-31 18:58:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless the trust is broken, than you shouldn't feel the need to know everyone that he talks to or where he is all the time. So trust him.
2007-12-31 18:45:42 · answer #6 · answered by bobcatlady2u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not jealousy, it is insecurity that you have if he were the ONE and it was true love there would be know doubt in your mind, no reason for you to wonder
2007-12-31 18:42:34 · answer #7 · answered by overview 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its reassurance that you have a good husband ... whats wrong with reassurance?
2007-12-31 18:41:44 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Neil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy. Unless you have a really good reason to be checking on him all the time (we need more info), you need to back off and reverse the potentially psycho route you are headed to.
2007-12-31 18:36:35 · answer #9 · answered by confidentgal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sometimes men give you reasons to be jealous or insecure. For example if he is not coming home at night a little spying can tell you enough to move on before you stay in a bad relationship.
2007-12-31 18:36:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, but more times than not I have found that if someone suspects infidelity, then it is going on. Research actually backs this up, but the way... Evolution over time has fine tuned our abilities as humans to detect such behavior so I would trust your instincts.... Rarely are they wrong..
2007-12-31 18:36:11 · answer #11 · answered by Tim J 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋