Okay,,,I have had discharge for a couple years... and I am geting more and more pubic hair, and im only 12.
Is it true that it happend in bed FIRST??? Like... while you are sleeping??
The only person i can tell is my dad, and sister. im really nervous about this,.
AND I cant just go to the store and buy pads or tampons because the only store in my town.... my aunt owns and i dont want her to see me.
please post as much as you can about this :( PLEASE!!!!! im REALLY nevous... and stressed. feel free to email me (xoxo_a.robyn@hotmail.com) Just to see how its going... or to give me info. even if you want to talk :)
PLEASE POST AS MUCH AS YOU CAN.
2007-12-31 10:29:05 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Talk to your friends or Mom or older sister or a girl that is close to you about it and not complete strangers.
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2007-12-31 13:29:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get your period anytime of day.Not just in bed sleeping.You should tell your sister if she is older.She can help you though this.If not ,dad will have to do.Most men are aware that their daughters will get their period at some point.First you must know that it is completely normal and many other young girls are going through it too.I just went through mine and I'm relieved it's over.Don't be nervous soon it will just be one of those things that are a pain.Honey,I'm fearing menopause and I never thought anything could be more scarey than getting my period when I was young.You should also talk to your aunt...she is a woman too she will understand.I know it's hard at first but it will all get easier.It's all part of being a woman and thank God he made you the better of the two sexes!!!!!!!!! Take Care!
2007-12-31 10:45:07 · answer #2 · answered by miss-snoopy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
honey ..What you are going thru even the mood change is so normal I am a nurse for 37yrs and grandmother of teens and mother of 5 daughters 2 sons let me tell you 1st do not feel ashamed of what is normal go to library or Internet and ask question about menstruation but discharge is normal can be gummy sticky have order normal or just secretion ,my granddaughter just went thru this had her;s at 13teen other at12 it seems like your on your way to womanhood..your breast may get swollen and tender gain water in body normal ,you are changing to a woman so if you need to ask write me at anitasandysammy@yahoo.com if you can not find help but do not be scared OK.....
2007-12-31 10:43:09 · answer #3 · answered by neet 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it could happen at any time now. anytime . If your sister is older than you she probably has alreadly been through this. If you don't want to talk to her, how about your aunt? Chances are she has been through this. I take it you are uncomfortable talking to Dad-understandable.
Why don't you want your aunt to see you? There is NOTHING to be ashamed of. Keep asking questions. There are plenty of females who have been where you are.
2007-12-31 10:38:48 · answer #4 · answered by jacqueline S 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about it I got mine the summer before 6th grade. I think i got mine while i was sleeping but i really don't remember. You can talk to your sister about it I doubt that she will mind. Don't freak out about your aunt finding out about you having your period every girl gets one. If you want you can e-mail me.
2007-12-31 10:37:10 · answer #5 · answered by cassieo13 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Mine first started when I was 11 and it did actually start while I was sleeping, but I dont know if it is that way with everyone. This is not something that you should be embarassed about it happens to every female. I was that way for years and finally I got over it. I know that this is a very nerve racking time, but just take a few deep breaths and it will be ok. It is a pain in the butt but it is a normal thing and you dont have to be embarassed about it, infact your sister would probably be a good person to talk to if she is older than you.
2007-12-31 10:34:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
take it easy, mine started when i came home from a night out. dont worry, just wear the thin pads you get for discharge to stop ur undies getting stained.
2007-12-31 10:34:43 · answer #7 · answered by allgiggles1984 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
i didnt start mine till i was 13. At first it is very embarassing, luckily i noticed while in the bathroom before it could cause any mess and i told my mum who gave me some of her sanitary towels. At some point you will have to let your dad know, im sure he would be expecting it at some point as its normal for all women. The best advice can give is dont worry, it not a big deal. If you prefer to talk to a woman about it, maybe your aunt can help? or your sister if shes older.
2007-12-31 10:34:00 · answer #8 · answered by fizz4eva_uk 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
firstly dont worry about your auntie shes a woman and been through it all before
your dad may not seem like an obvious candidate to ask but he does understand surprisingly as men arnt fazed by that often
it dosnt always happen in bed but if your worried wear a pantyliner at night
hope i helped
2007-12-31 10:33:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
it happens anywhere you will never no . but if you are not comfortable with talking about it to your sister write her a letter .
2007-12-31 10:33:37 · answer #10 · answered by sexy 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
hey dont worry its gonna happen sooner or later. If you are to embarassed then i would have someone go get the pads/tampons for you. You might want to talk to your sister or aunt though we women understand or also if you have a teacher or counselor you can trust
2007-12-31 10:33:29 · answer #11 · answered by Bethany W 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋