if you could bring a loved one back from the dead???

Question

like most people ive suffered a number of losses.
but would you really ...really wish them back?
how would it change your life now your life has adapted without them?
would you be prepared to lose them all over again?
sorry to be mismog i don't mean to be...
i'm just curious what conclusions others have come to...

Answer 1

have to say haz, thats the first question i wont answer........have a star.

Answer 2

I would actually bring 2 people back to life, one would be my dad, he died 7 years ago. I could use his wisdom and i miss his hugs, i could go for a few of those too.
The second person i would bring back is Aaliyah, she died too young and it wasn't her fault. The music industry haven't been the same since she's been gone, everyone sound the same and she had a unique style of music!

Answer 3

I wouldn't. Losing them ONCE was hard enough.

Answer 4

I haven't lost that many people in my life. Only 4.
The closest person I have lost was my dearest great-granny.
Thinking about it, I wouldn't wish her to come back, even if she could.
Not because I don't want to see her, but because I don't want to go through the pain of losing her again.
We were very close, much closer than I will probably be with anyone, so her death was a really massive blow to me, which caused me to almost drop out of school and start doing things I now look back at and feel so stupid for doing.
I wouldn't want her to come back, because she was in so much pain before she died, however I would love it if I could give her a special message her husband, my great grandad, whom I wasn't that close to ( They had separated, but never divorced. ) said to me, moments before he sadly passed away.

Answer 5

I lost my dad in 1996 and my mom in 2006. Both deaths hit me very hard as I deal really poorly with tragedy. It would be tempting but I think it would be harder to say goodbye the second time, knowing that I may start grieving all over again. Those were the two hardest times in my life, I would not want to open those wounds again at any other point in my life. I suppose if conditions were different, and I could choose whether or not they were sick, or whether or not they had a nice long lives this time before they left me again, I could think more seriously about it.

And since I believe they are in heaven, I wouldn't want to take them away from their paradise.

Plus, if you ever read that short story Monkey's Paw, I think you would reconsider. It was a horror tale, the moral of which is that once you are dead, there is nothing that can really bring the person back the way they were. The movie Flatliners was kind of like that too.

There are things I want to say to my parents still, and I don't think I need them back to to be able to say those things, and to know what they would say if I could be in two way communication with them. I think that wherever they are, they can hear me, love me, and wish me the best...so I still talk to my folks sometimes.

Answer 6

No i would not because all living thing have to die it's part of the cycle of life.

Answer 7

yes sure i would ..and i think i ll try to have the best time with that person so that now i know how it feels to lose him...

Answer 8

definitely not, my father died last year, and to be honest, he is no longer suffering in pain, it would be totally selfish to bring him back in to the suffering he had. He is always with me in my heart, my head, the people we knew and everywhere i go ...love does not die ...x

Answer 9

I would bring my dad back to spend more time with him.

Answer 10

I believe that people are taken at a certain time for a reason--WE do not know what it is,however.
So I feel it is best to let them RIP...

Answer 11

Yes, I'd bring back my dad. I'd be able to say goodbye and tell him I love him this time.