i feel like my crotch want me to excite myself but i don't want to bcuz its wrong and immature. Why do i usually have thses feeling i don't even lie on my stomach cuz i know the feeling will come up even if I'm totally thinking of math or something. How can i fight these feelings i don't want them. I'm careful about wat i watch and read but its still comes. I located where it was coming from in my crotch and its a slightly different color than the other parts and kinda hangs out. And it takes a while for the desire to go away!! What is that??? How can i stop the temptations??? Don't tell me to give in!!! Is it possible to go to the gyno and get excited?????
2007-12-31 09:12:09 · 15 answers · asked by meee 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I'm 21 and live virginal till marriage.
2007-12-31 09:12:51 · update #1
um it's just your hormones, its normal to be feeling this way and its normal to masturbate.
I don't really understand your last question, I guess its normal to get excited if you go to the gyno?
2007-12-31 09:16:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
While I don't agree with pleasuring yourself being wrong or immature, I do know where you're coming from! I developed this serious desire at the age of 12. The only thing I can suggest is to come to terms with your feelings. You need to realize that it is normal and healthy to feel this way and look at it in the right perspective. This does not mean you have to pleasure yourself or give in to anyone's advances! I just think it would take a lot of stress off if you came to terms with how you feel. Then, whenever you get the urge, you should be able to brush it off more easily, because you've already dealt with it.
The area that you're most likely feeling this sensation is the clitoris. It is located under the clitoral hood. Whenever you're excited, the clitoris becomes engorged and protrudes so that it is easier to find. This is the most sensitive area outside of your vagina and will likely be where most of your sexual pleasure comes from. There's actually more to it than this single point, but I'll let you find that information when you're interested in learning.
I've never been excited at a gyno's office, because I'm usually very uncomfortable and tense. I suppose this could happen with some few women. Don't worry! A gyno won't have any reason to be looking at your clitoris and likely won't even notice.
The only way these feelings will fade is through time and experience. You'll just have to be strong enough to fight the urges, especially when you become romantically involved with anyone. Make sure they know upfront that you want to wait and find someone who can respect your feelings. Don't ever look down on yourself or be angry at these feelings!!! Embrace your sexuality! It will bring you pleasure so great that there are no words to describe it, when you finally find someone that you can spend your life with.
2007-12-31 18:17:53 · answer #2 · answered by Eva A 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dear...you are a nyphomaniac...forget staying a virgin! LOL!
2007-12-31 18:14:00 · answer #3 · answered by bodacious baby 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummm i dont no how to help u with that one. everyone gets
horny sometimes
2007-12-31 18:12:07 · answer #4 · answered by Katherine 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It happens to all of us some of the time.
2007-12-31 17:56:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it may be a fluid problem, to much fluid is collecting in that are of your body.
the best thing to do is to see the doctor, because it may be a hormone problem. hope that helps
2007-12-31 17:40:23 · answer #6 · answered by Navedh M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, like some other people who've answered I think you just need to masturbate and calm down. I think damned few husband's, even if they expect virginity, would ever expect you not to ever masturbate. However, as anyone who's ever been depressed can tell you, the antidepressant medications can really kick your sex drive to the curb. It might be good to talk to your doctor about medication you can take to curb your sex drive.
2007-12-31 17:28:57 · answer #7 · answered by krowtap 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We are sexual beings and you cannot get away from this fact!And what's to be ashamed of? These are feelings every man and woman feel! I would be more worried if your were NOT feeling these things! Happy New Year :)
2007-12-31 17:24:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That sounds normal for a teenager, but you've already past that time of "raging hormones"....you need to call your doctor. He may suggest you to start something to regulate your hormones (main reason for arousal) like birth control--even if you're not sexually active. Don't suffer like this; set an appointment right away.
2007-12-31 17:24:18 · answer #9 · answered by Allessandria 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I'm going to answer this, assuming it's a legitimate question.... if it's not, oh well.
First of all, if you're abstaining from sex and masturbation because of religous reasons, then i'm sorry, there's nothing anyone can do for you or tell you, becuase it's your choice.
hormones cause sexual urges, so can your clothes rubbing against your body, or a person that you're attracted to walking by. sex is natural. It's probably the most natural thing we have left, aside from urinating...
If you're curious about your body parts, look them up on Wikkipedia. it's very informative. and there's nothing wrong with being informed.
Try getting couseling from a religous leader or family members like your mom.
2007-12-31 17:21:21 · answer #10 · answered by Silver Thunderbird 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's impossible to make the feelings go away.
If you don't want to masturbate you're either going to have to wait it out each time you feel this way or you're gonna have to get married so your husband can take care of it for you.
If you satisfied yourself it's unlikely the ob/gyn would excite you. It's really more uncomfortable than pleasurable.
2007-12-31 17:18:00 · answer #11 · answered by AMANDA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋