OK HERE IS THE THING. MY BEST GUY FRIEND AND I HAD A PROJECT SO WE ENDED UP STAYING UP LATE SO I ENDED UP STAYING THE NIGHT AND WE HAD SEX. I HAVENT TOOKEN A PREGNANCY TEST YET BUT I WILL. BUT THATS NOT THE PROBLEM. THE PROBLEM IS THAT HE IS MY BEST FRIEND AND I AM NOT SURE IF I LIKE HIM ENOUPH TO BE THE DAD IF I AM PREGNANT. PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE.
2007-12-31 08:56:23 · 25 answers · asked by Cecilia :) 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Well i mean basically if yu have fun with this person then yea he might be a good dad. I mean yu obviously feel comfy around him so yea he cud be a good father.
2007-12-31 09:00:57 · answer #1 · answered by person 2 · 1⤊ 5⤋
first of all if he is your best friend then why in the hell did you have sex with him??you liked him enough to f*** him so you must like him enough to father your child you fool,it's not about you anymore if you are pregnant, get over yourself and grow the f*** up..you slept with your best friend what kind of friends do that,im sorry from where i come from you don't behave in that kind of manner not with your best friend anyways,you must now that you made a no no and now the both of you must grow up and take care of the child if you are pregnant,and he has the right to be a part of that baby's life so don't you dare Deni him of that,rather you like him enough or not Missy
2007-12-31 09:28:50 · answer #2 · answered by moonstone2009 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
...and here I thought I was the only one this happened to lol. My best friend is 14 weeks pregnant with "our" child as well. Only thing is we couldn't be happier and RELIEVED that our little "slip up" happened with each other than just someone we had been dating for a short time. It could be a good thing but first off make sure you're pregnant lol and if he's your best friend just be straight up with him. Good luck!
2007-12-31 09:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok. One, turn Caps lock off.
Two, take a grammer class (speciffically one with Verbs, like Taken, instead of Tooken)
Three, Close your legs and Finish your project.
Then, get a pregnancy test. If you don't want him to be the father of your child, then DON'T HAVE SEX WITH HIM! What do you think we are going to tell you, That there is a magical surgery that will go into you, take out the sperm, and change it to someone else's???? You can't pick and choose who the biological father is, at least not after it's conceived. If you don't think he will be a good father, then the only thing you can do, is have sex with someone else now, and say that he is the father, although a blood test will probably be taken, proving that that's wrong.
2007-12-31 09:13:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's your bestfriend, then I'm sure he'll be there for you. Of course it will be awkward at first, but if you two are true friends he'll help you get through this, after all it takes more then one person to make a baby.
2007-12-31 09:13:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you said a project i'm assuming this means you're under age. Go see a councilor at a pregnancy help center like Planned Parenthood.They do the tests there if your afraid of your parents finding out, everything is confidential.
If you're not then go to the store and but a home test. You shouldn't freak out until it comes out positive, or negative. Sounds like you're hopeing for more of the negative, but what ever happens you should talk to him about it. Not nowing what his personal choice on this situation is bad for you.
You don't have to be with the dad's baby to have him as the dad. As for him paying you child support if he doesn't want this and you do then its your choice to raise the baby on your own without his money. Don't expect much from the babys father if he says no to having one. You can't force a man to be a father anymore that you can a woman to be a mother.
2007-12-31 09:13:30 · answer #6 · answered by Ahmanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what exactly are you asking?
If you don't want him to be the father... now's a bit late for it.
If you don't want to marry him? Guess what - that's not necessary for teen parents nowadays.
"He's your best friend but you don't like him enough to..." You have mighty high standards. If he's your best friend then how much better does a guy have to be?
Good luck.
2007-12-31 09:10:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anon 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Then you aren't very smart are you..... you should probably take a pregnancy test and then look into options for adoption.
2007-12-31 09:10:16 · answer #8 · answered by Me, again 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, relax. Obsessing won't do you a darn bit of good. Second, forget all the holier than thou's. It's been happening for as long as there have been boys and girls. My own dear departed grandparents had a shotgun wedding if you know what I mean. Fortunately for you in this day and age you don't HAVE to marry the guy you don't really love. So get the test and make the decision. You got basically 3 choices and 2 of them involve continuing the pregnancy. If you decide to abort, you are the only person who needs to know. Your decision and yours alone. The other 2 are keep the baby and raise it or make an adoption plan. Either of those 2 needs input from the daddy. He can't make you give it up but he can decide to parent the baby if you don't want to. So you got a lot of choices to make. Take a deep breathe and if you got best friends you can trust, I suggest you use them. Good luck.
2007-12-31 09:09:00 · answer #9 · answered by punxy_girl 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If your pregnant you can not change that hes the daddy. If your not pregnant use condoms and birthcontrol to prevent this again.
2007-12-31 09:07:13 · answer #10 · answered by erinjl123456 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't have unprotected sex with a man you wouldn't parent a child with? That's the best advice I can give...oh and don't borrow trouble. Until you know for sure there is no sense is driving yourself nuts with the "What ifs"....take a test and then worry about it.
2007-12-31 09:06:56 · answer #11 · answered by Notagain 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋