I found out I was with child. Then I started bleeding and having cramps. I went to the ER and they told me it was threatned abortion. The would be father drinks alot. Am I in good reason to believe that him being drunk when he got me pregnant is the reason for our loss???
2007-12-31 08:32:33 · 22 answers · asked by Curious 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
No. Nearly ALL miscarriages in the first trimester are due to chromosomal abnormalities, not anything you or the father could have prevented. Development just stops and a miscarriage results. It's very common in the first 12 weeks.
I'm sorry for your loss, but it's not your fault, nor is it the father's.
2007-12-31 08:39:02 · answer #1 · answered by Wildflower 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No it just something that happens sometimes. Do not blame him
2007-12-31 08:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your loss,i was pregnant with twins twice and lost one both pregnancies,i know how hard it is for you to be dealing with this,but it is no ones fault at all in any way these things happen....you mentioned that the father drinks a lot you should really think about your relationship,drinking all the time yields a big red flag Hun......
2007-12-31 08:56:07 · answer #3 · answered by moonstone2009 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, honey, it wasn't anyone's fault. I had 2 miscarriages and my husband and I dont drink. It is one of those things that happen, usually it is nature's way of ensuring that when you do deliver a baby it will be a healthy one. Please take care of yourself and you can go on to have a healthy baby.
2007-12-31 08:55:49 · answer #4 · answered by Peachy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO
2007-12-31 08:53:43 · answer #5 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
him being a drunk has nothing to do with your body rejecting the fetus. unfortunately there is no one to blame :(
i'm sorry for your loss.
2007-12-31 08:47:53 · answer #6 · answered by echopaterson 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm no, sometimes these things happen, this baby wasnt meant to be, its not his fault, why would you even say that? that is rude and hard to grasp. him being drunk when you got pregnant has nothing to do with you miscarrying, i am sorry for your loss, but its def. not his fault. nature took its course.
2007-12-31 08:43:58 · answer #7 · answered by Mommy of 3 Boys 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you cannot blame him for the miscarriage....... you can't blame yourself eithier, unfortunately these things happen sometimes. I'm sorry for your loss!
2007-12-31 08:42:29 · answer #8 · answered by alicia m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a threated abortion because of my blood type, I think you need to do some research before blaming anyone, if it can be blamed on someone, and if you really feel the need to blame. Sometimes these things just happen, and pointing fingers may just make it worse. Remember that you made the decision to sleep with him too.
2007-12-31 08:41:18 · answer #9 · answered by JustMe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It was your body that rejected the pregnancy, It had nothing to do with his drinking. "Sorry for your loss"
2007-12-31 08:41:16 · answer #10 · answered by diablo 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋