this is a relatively new problem. i dont enjoy cleaning up either so often i just sit and feel angry about the mess but cant get motivated to clean it. what is wrong with me?
2007-12-31 07:35:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Tidy house , tidy mind
2007-12-31 07:50:44 · answer #1 · answered by ADad 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sparkling the domicile. this is that straightforward. i be conscious of this is complicated with a infant working around yet that's the place you may take administration. commence coaching the infant to %. up after their mess and help them. Instill some solid values for the destiny. Your husband works all day and you get to stay domicile...i think of? it is not sparkling yet this is the way it comes for the time of. If he works to the place you may stay domicile, do your section. that's the place housewives get a bad rep. this is alot of paintings yet potential. i've got have been given 2 youthful boys and that i paintings. i'm getting domicile till now my guy and my first element is to make advantageous the home is picked up. each and every each and every so usually it slips, and that's comprehensible yet for many human beings of the time, this is going to likely be carried out. No excuses fairly in case you reside domicile all day.
2016-11-27 01:07:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens to us all at some time!!
2007-12-31 08:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when a person's life feels out of control in other areas, they have a sense that if they can just have one area of their life - say their room - in order, that then they feel there is one place they can relax, and not feel like a failure.
When that person has no where they can go that feels as if it's under control -- then their whole life may feel out of control.Some people can't relax in a cluttered room. It has to do with control. Clutter makes you feel out of control, for some reason.
Clutter may also make you feel guilty for sitting down - as if you "should be" up and doing something to resolve the situation. Your lack of motivation could well be coming from your energy level. Anger and a sense that numerous life-areas of stressfulness sap a large portion of your energy so that you simply are too worn-out to deal with it.
2007-12-31 08:05:01 · answer #4 · answered by Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm like that too, I want the house to be clean and tidy, but I can't be bothered having to do all the work to get it that way!!
I think a lot of people are like that, after all, not many people really enjoy cleaning, but we do like to sit in a clean and tidy house. Its much more relaxing when everything is tidy, the lights are turned down, and you can stretch out and enjoy the space around you. When there are dirty cups, plates, the bin is overflowing, there are old newspapers and shoes lying around, the pleasantness of your space is all cluttered up and the atmosphere is spoiled.
There is nothing wrong with you, it is perfectly normal to feel that way! You just have to get on with it, it will only take a few minutes really to tidy up, and you will be so pleased once it is done.
I'm off to finish hoovering then tidy up the living room so its nice and relaxing for the new year coming in! (God I wish I could afford to hire a cleaner!)
2007-12-31 08:04:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre not alone honey!
2007-12-31 07:47:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yahoo answers is getting to you
its taking all your energy through concentrating
on these answers and questions for 5 hours straight at a time
everything suffers not just the housework
2007-12-31 07:46:08 · answer #7 · answered by infobod2nd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b/c u feel stressed that you havn't done anything but u need 2 gt it done. nothing is wrong with you that happens 2 me too.
2007-12-31 07:44:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can only relax in "comfort"
2007-12-31 07:44:14 · answer #9 · answered by jjn333 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its OCD. I know how you feel and I used to feel that way a lot too. I just try to block the mess out of my mind and ignore it.
2007-12-31 07:42:29 · answer #10 · answered by (: 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm exactly the same-i dont like cleaning much but I feel great when its finished-a clear house make for clear mind
2007-12-31 07:41:12 · answer #11 · answered by Glenn F 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋